How to KNOW When He's Serious About You?🤔

Lol. When you learn to love you, you won't care about what others are doing. fulfill yourself and do things that make you happy. ladies be serious about yourself

Men act right in the beginning! But when they know you love them....they act like jerks!!!!

My mother calls that standards! If you don't have them AND hold firm to them any man could get you if they wanted you. Stop worrying about what these men want. Be special :)

When you meet a narcissist theyre professional liers trust me! They do everything perfectly and come at you like the perfect gent! Then you become invested and booooooooooooom! They do a 360.........😂

I have a zero tolerance level for games but most say I'm stuck up but I'm really not I just don't have time for the foolishness.

It seems like some ladies are afraid to demand what their worth and be more selfish so their hearts can remain protected. Stop bending to the will of men and do what's going to be best for you and if he has your best interest at heart, he'll be of the same accord.

Derrick, I thank God for you. I just walked away from a guy I was dating because some things just wasn't adding up and your videos helped me to see things from a man perspective too. I'm not going to waste my time listing one red flag because I'm not giving NO more of my time and energy to him nor the situation. I'm moving on. Waiting to meet someone like yourself who's honest upfront because with me it's either black or white or your in or out. I'm not with the bull** and I'm never afraid to eat at the table alone whenever I have to. Alicia

Most of the time their issues stem from childhood let alone a last relationship...SMH!

U need to put out a book!!! ❤

The problem is the good girl bad guy syndrome...until we ladies give the good guys a chance we'll always b unhappy.

But on the opposite side of the coin..When you meet your true counterpart(what I call it) OMG! You walk around like 😍😍😍😍😆😆😆😆😍😍😍😆😆ALL DAY!There's Nothing like it! Finding Happiness is Amazing..

I recently ended a long distance relationship because of poor communication and excuses that never solved anything. I needed more and I didn't see the point of being told "suck it up" or "you have to understand I'm tired" as he dodged problems and never attempted to fix anything. Don't get me wrong, I do understand, but last time I checked a 10 minute call is next to no time to invest every couple of days or so if you really love someone. You can't expect to be in a relationship, especially a long distance one if the communication is terrible, which I said. Although I'm still pretty upset about the break up, I'm still trying to remember that I saw the bigger picture. Sad that effort is only 110% during the 1st week. It never lasts.

Agreed. I completely agree and for a woman that is serious, the list needs to be very specific, extensive, and well thought out. Don't create an impossible qualifications list, but make sure that it reflects what you NEED in order to be happy. Don't ever skim or compromise on what you want, what you need, and what you're worth. We are worth it ladies. BELIEVE IT 💯 #makesmartdecisions

Bottom line "take no bull** " no need to take any prisoners! Words truly spoken!

🙌 but those guys who want to be takin serious does not exist no more.

Derrick is absolutely right about women having standards. taking the time to really find out if that person is best suited for you. succumbing to less than what you deserve just because you don't want to be single and you're tired of being alone,maybe even getting pressure from family and friends about settling down. doesn't mean you have to settle for less then the best and you know you deserve the best. you shouldn't feel ostracized because you are selective about who you date. you should feel proud about that and that you have standards and you don't want just anyone.

#TEAMJAXN WHERE Y'ALL AT??!! 🤔🤔

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Before you can move forward, one must know their boundaries, set their GUIDELINES and STICK TO THEM! Men have far less of a problem doing this than us women for whatever reason but this process is ESSENTIAL to your own progress. Listen to this man, cuz if you can't tell already, he is trying to set you up for success. 😁 #Hegotthejuice

Can we just call you the “Woman Whisperer”? 😩

#TeamJaxn baby! I absolutely agree, & I couldn't date someone who is still living with they baby momma, hell NOPE. It's so hard these days...