Autistic 19 year old has a meltdown biting his dads hand

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Published 2022-03-19
Before you comment please read the description below, think about the impact your words will have on an already broken family that live through these daily horrors quietly, imagine yourself in their shoes. Be considerate of their situation and understand the amount of things they have already tried to assist their son with some sort of quality of life.

Billy is 19 and has major intellectual impairment and severe autism. He's non verbal, rarely sleeps, is only partially toilet trained, and has multiple meltdowns daily where he screams constantly, harms himself by hitting, biting, and scratching himself, dropping to his knees or bottom, and causing terrible damage to his body. To watch their son go through this rips their hearts out and they are left in tears agonising for him and left feeling helpless as he is unable to verbalise what he is feeling, bleeding, bruised and distressed.

Over the last 19 years Billy's parents have tried many different ways of trying to help Billy cope with his meltdowns like, weighted blankets and vests, chewies, helmets, gloves, communicating devices, multiple different medications, music, speech therapy and the list goes on and on. Recently their NDIS funding has run out, Billy is not receiving the amount of funds he is entitled to because the NDIS think Billy is not disabled enough! The Neeson's are currently fighting these decisions through the tribunals but in the meantime they need further support gofund.me/0a8a6041 The Neeson's have made these recordings so they can show Billy's specialists and doctors otherwise there is no way they can see the severity of his meltdowns, these recordings are not made to make money, they are not made to be cruel but simply to bring awareness to what families have to go through with severely disabled autistic children.

If you'd like to read the whole story of how bad this family actually have it please see their GoFundMe description: gofund.me/0a8a6041

All Comments (21)
  • @TheCrimebaby
    I'm sorry, I could never deal with this every single day. Father is a saint
  • @Andopiy
    A son who needs his Dad's love and support. My heart is aching.
  • @the4914
    This gets me emotional...The love for you son is palpable...and beautiful. I am right there with you...I understand and celebrate it.
  • @XavierP333
    The Dad is a warrior, with the patience of a Demigod. Respect for that man. I know exactly what he goes through on a daily basis.
  • @anooseholay
    This video really hit me hard. I have so much respect for the gentleness of that father
  • @astonishingpatch
    Unfortunately there's many people out there who don't have your commendable level of empathy and patience. God bless yous and your son. ❤
  • I can’t believe the parents have had to deal with biting screaming and struggling for the last 20 years That’s a absolute nightmare
  • @missnazstylee
    Amazing father one in a million ❤ you’re a superhero Your patience is inspirational to me when going through the hard times with my autistic child as well Thank you for all you do for your son🙏 I’m sure he loves you to the moon and back ❤
  • @kyliebatts8657
    My son has done the same to me. But we love them unconditionally. You handled this well ❤️
  • @AllGood_Thingss
    oh my goodness, I cried instantly… I am still teary, I showed my partner Dean your video also he was trying to not tear up ahah. Thank you so much for sharing, you are so patient and loving to your son the way you just know wat to do and wat your boy needs in that moment.. ahhhh your an incredible Father ! ❤️ my little girl jus turned 5 she has cerebral palsy & autism, and videos like yours really help me so I really appreciate you being brave and showing your life and your sons xx love to you beautiful fam ✨🦋 and lots of love to your gorgeous son ☺️ xxxxx
  • You are a great father. This video brought tears to my eyes. My son who is 3 was recently diagnosed. God bless your family
  • @TheXangelus
    I’m sorry but I wouldn’t be able to live in that kind of situation. I feel for the parents because this has to be absolute hell. The high pitched constant screaming at the top of his lungs almost gives me headache after just a mi ute so mad respect that they can go through that all day.
  • @philipdrewry6706
    My son has the same aggressive behaviour as this young man. This tears your heart and soul from you, with no end in sight - hell on earth.
  • @AD-kq2nx
    Don't let him near your jugular after that man
  • @Americanhoney86
    Hurts my heart for him. Glad Dad helped him through. Awesome parents.
  • Poor kid he cannot help it. It’s heartwarming to see them embrace. They knew exactly what he needed. 🤗🤗🤗