NEVER Marry a Man Who Has THESE 9 Habits

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I have been married for over 25 years. I can tell you that the inability to set boundaries with your family can be detrimental to a marriage. My mother was resentful of my wife. I had to choose between my wife and my mother. It was a stressful situation but I made the right choice. I have seen a lot of guys allow their mothers to destroy their relationship with their wives. We should respect our mothers but that doesn't give them right to ruin our lives. Sometimes parents are trying to project their dysfunction on your relationship. The man's mother may be jealous of her son's wife because he treats her better than she was ever treated . She doesn't think that her daughter in law should be treated like a queen when she never was. Men must separate completely from their family of origin in order to be successful in their marriages.

After having 2 failed marriages I'm a witness. What you see is what you get. Be sure what you see is what you want.

“Women don’t mind giving a push but they don’t wanna continuously carry “ Amen to that

I dated a man who was a long distance truck driver. He had no apartment or home and stayed with me when he was "home". We spoke about marriage, discussed expectations, looked at rings (his idea). The topic of finances made him agitated, which was a huge red flag. He did not want to talk about income, credit, taxes, or savings. I had a large home which I loved and worked hard to get and maintain. I couldn't allow him to stay with me anymore. I knew it wasn't right. I felt like I was boarding him. I ended the relationship completely when I asked if he was prepared to purchase us a home if we got married and he said no, then he asked why couldn't we just live in my house. I knew he wasn't marriage material for me early on but ignored my own standards. Big mistake!

Marriage does not change his character.

My pastor says the same thing--"whatever characteristics or habits a person has before marriage will be the same after they get married, unless God changes their heart."

"A man ain't got no business asking a woman for money." ~ My Dad (1930-1990)

If you are always the person pushing someone to become better at the end of the day it affects you mentally. NOT GOOD FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP

I’m 40, not married and no children. Why? Because I value PEACE. I’m not one of those women who need titles. If the shoe don’t fit, I’m not going to keep wearing them until I develop calluses on my damn feet. 🤷🏽‍♀️

YOU covered some really good issues in a relationship. Marriage changes nothing.... He is what he is when YOU are dating him. What YOU SEE is what YOU GET. Marriage will NOT change him.

Not taking accountability for his actions is a huge red flag for me

“Marriage is like a magnifier, it will magnify the good and the bad” Thank you Stephan. 💯

You could have saved me years of misery. Ladies, listen to this man!

I agree with you. I married potential in a man that never developed. When I was walking down the aisle I knew I was making a mistake. He never saw a need to grow. When the verbal abuse moved to physical abuse---I left. 😢

Oh wow! 😭 My boyfriend asked me to marry him and I just have a feeling God sent my husband and to get the confirmation that he doesn’t possess any of these traits is a blessing in itself ♥️

Anger issues, not able to react well to things they don't want to hear.And when it happened they can't calmly talk things out, they have outburst followed by yelling,and saying anything they can to hurt you.

My grandmother said “Once a man starts to abuse you, he never stops!!! Especially if he doesn’t seek help!!!

Marrying late is a blessing despite society or (Kevin Samuels lol) thinks because you have room to learn from your mistakes and learn from other marriages. And most importantly know and understand yourself.

Some men are not ambitious i dated a man who was comfortable in his job. He would say wow your so strong you dont need me around. I tried to help him but i learned leave him alone and on top of that he said marriage is just a piece of paper and so i wished him well and didnt look back.