STOP! THINK! AM I INVITING WHAT I WANT TO SEE?

I can't believe people have negative comments about such a lovely person that is trying to help all of us. Beautiful person inside and out.

People forget that when you point 1 finger at someone, there are always 3 fingers pointing back at yourself. How would these people respond to back handed comments dressed up as compliments? Julie...YOU ARE LOVELY and your guidance is AMAZING ❤

I think you’re lovely. When people give me their unsolicited comments about what I’m wearing or how I look, I respond with “I didn’t realize my appearance was that important to you.” It’s especially effective to use on those who like make insults disguised as compliments.

As someone who worked in retail for over 2 decades, the amount of people who feel compelled to comment on someone's physical appearance to their face is staggering . I swallowed it and swallowed it until it made me ill, and then I started clapping back - which of course didn't sit well with my bosses...oh well, guess I'm now intent on manifesting a much better job that's much better suited to who I am and all the brilliant skills I have. We love you for YOU. XXOO

This really hit home for me. Many years ago, I had a successful career as an international fashion model. Some of the personal comments made by clients on how I looked were very upsetting. Some had no quarms saying it to your face, others waited until you'd left the casting and rang your agent. Being a model opened many doors of opportunity, and for that, I am immensely grateful. It also made me stronger and gave me the confidence to stand back and allow other people to shine. I still have a cry now and again for those tough lessons, and I find it hard to accept a compliment, but I'm working on it. So thank you, Julie, for this valuable lesson on self-worth. And remember, we love you and all that you do for us ❤❤❤

You are beautiful- don’t listen to what they say. You were beautiful then and still are!

I've had backhanded comments my whole life Julie, and it's taken me my whole adult life, and especially the last few, years, where I began my "waking up" to realise, it's those that say the mean things to me, their problems, not mine. Now I know you know all this because you're awesome, blessed and truly great!! But it still hurts at times, right? Because of you, and others like you, I now know how to navigate these things, so for that Julie, I thank you, and am truly grateful, for all that you do, and for making my life easier to navigate!! 🙏 Plus, you're beautiful, blonde., gray or no hair, I see you, for YOU!! 🙏💖😍

They're just a bunch of insecure people that have been told the same thing that they're telling you. Julie, you are beautiful inside and out and you help thousands of people so just brush them off your shoulders❤😊

The Power of words. Words have done more harm in the world than any physical weapon we, as humans, have created. When we see an adult beating a child with words, we shudder, and want to help the child. What that child takes in taints that child's world from that moment on, even if they can not consciously recall the event later. Our subconscious mind records it all, forever. Every human being living, no matter the age, has a small wounded child inside of them. And ask yourself before speaking. For what I am about to say/write; Is it Kind? Is it truly necessary? Is it Truth? Namaste Julie Thank you for your word and your wisdom. Christina 🦝

I admire your elegant retort at back-handed compliments. I admire your strength - from the stories of your past to what you've persevered through to reach where you are right now. You carry Grace - that takes some digesting alone . Then, you carry bravery - that takes even more digesting. You carry so much more too, but now, you carry self-love - WOW - you're teaching us now. Im 58, its not easy. I'm grateful to you not-giving-up ! I love watching you grow, in hairstyles, clothes , colours , all of it. You're authentic . You're a warrior, Julie . You matter ! X

Another comment my mother used was if you cant say something nice then say nothing at all, we must all give love❤

My practical advice to people: Put a photo of someone you admire/respect near your computer, or as your phone's lock screen photo, and then look at that person's photo before you hit send on a nasty or passive aggressive message. Would that person who you love/respect send this type of message and what is your intention for doing this? It comes back to mindfulness/awareness.

You’re a beautiful woman. You are blessed with good genes! Those people are just projecting their own insecurities, which is sad.

Thank you Julie! I think you look great 24/7…. My motto is if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all! Always be humble and kind! Spread love and light! Sending love from Texas! 💕💫

I absolutely adore you. Shame on anybody who says anything negative. They need to look in the mirror and figure out what's going on with themselves that they would ever say mean things to someone else. You, Miss Julie Poole, are a beautiful, kind thoughtful, and giving person. I am truly grateful for all your guidance and support that I can walk into my best life. God bless you❤

With our society today there is an unnatural focus on looking perfect. It's becoming the norm for people to put so much energy into hair, makeup, plastic surgery. The focus of our energy needs to come back to being authentically yourself. Acceptance of self, which flows on to acceptance of others. I saw you talk about this on your tarot channel. You are so kind to say that people don't mean to say these things. I feel that a lot of people say and do things to make themselves feel better, and this is sad. Lets all work together to make everyone feel worthy ❤

What a beautiful example of humankind you are, Julie. I'm glad you spoke up. Sometimes being silent isn't the right action. ❤❤❤

Extraordinary, Beautiful, Julie, I can’t thank you enough for your phenomenal mindful example, love, knowledge, skills, gifts, mentoring and reading!! The tone and temperament you model even when you are expressing your reaction to unkind criticisms/ judgements is another remarkable example of trust and forgiveness…Thank you for asking everyone to be more kind, fair, self-aware, to respect boundaries, “to think 1st and speak later” and for suggesting we all pay more attention to our words and our feelings! I’m sorry for the uninvited and uncaring comments to you!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

You are beautiful no matter what your hair colour is! Your beautiful light shines through always ❤

Beautifully presented.❤ Every thought does not need to be spoken. Imagine looking into the mirror before say what you intend to say to another and ask yourself do you want to be on the receiving end of such a comment. We are our thoughts conscious and unconscious. Something to remember.😊