My Girlfriend Won't Sleep With Me | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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Published 2024-06-12
WHEN Sam started dating Conor in 2020, she was up front about the fact that she's asexual. Speaking to Love Don't Judge, Sam explained: "I don't have any sexual attraction. I still have romantic attraction, but sex is off the table for us. It's not something that's really in our relationship." Speaking about Sam's revelation, Conor remarked: "I was definitely confused at first, it was definitely a journey on educating myself." Giving an insight into how their intimate life looks, Conor admitted: "I would say our intimate sex life is definitely not what society deems as normal," with Sam, agreeing: "Third base is the line with us, that's fine." The pair proudly share their relationship online, but it's not always met positively. Sam said: "I do get a little bit of hate. I get things like, 'So you're a robot' and 'Being with you must be torture'." The couple's friend, Cameron, has also expressed puzzlement in the past, explaining: "I was confused, I didn't know what it was. I was still learning about that stuff and didn't know how you could do that." Remaining unfazed by the judgement, Sam said: "People who judge our relationship need to open their mind a little bit more. Things can be different and the love is still evergrowing."
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All Comments (21)
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I’m asexual, and I would let my partner know im not into having sex a lot, however I will still compromise for my partner. It’s about compromising and figuring out what works for both parties.
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Maybe Connor is on the asexual spectrum. If not, he must be intensely in love with her. Either way, they should feel free to do whatever makes them happy. Ultimately these are their choices to make
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Someone tell me where the problem is? If they are both adults, aware of what they want and happy with it, there is no problem. Love, a relationship, has no one right form. If that's how they want to live, they have the right to do so. They don't hurt anyone.
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There is nothing wrong with this. For once I like what I see. Sex is overrated and people have to pretend it's the most important thing in the world or else they are mad. Not true. So much more to life. Some are at it like rabbits, others can't bebothered with humping. Good for them.
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Most people probably feel attacked cause they removed all their clothes and still didn’t find love
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I'm asexual as well. I'm 24, and I've felt this way my whole life.
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they didnt address the elephant in the room, how is he managing his urges while being in this relationship. if that is explained well, may be more people will take a chance to be in relationship with asexual
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Compromising is the key. If he is fine with not having sex, then what do I care..? You are allowed to live the way you want ❤️
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Whenever I hear "... have received backlash online" I roll my eyes, like WHO CARES what people say online? lmao the premise
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I’ve had a date ghost me because I wouldn’t send nudes or be overly sexual. It’s so sad most men are dumbed down now, and can’t have intimacy in getting to know someone for a long lasting true love. Conor is a great boyfriend and men should be proud to be like this more instead of it being the other way around 😅
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I'm asexual, and for me sex isn't so much about attraction as it is about trust. Like, I would never initiate it, but if I trusted my partner I would still engage in it.
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to each his own.... who are we to judge.... all the best to your relationship.
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Sex is not all building a strong relationship is everything sex is the icing on the cake after marriage. Guys i wish you well on your journey.
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It's sad that so many people think all a relationship is. Some people physically can't even have sex, are they not allowed loved and a relationship. Intimacy comes in so many shapes and sizes. The ignorance of some people is really appalling
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“My Boyfriend Respects My Boundaries”. There. Fixed your title.
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Do what makes u happy.
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Just make shure asexuality isn't trauma response...
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...what does being asexual warrant a love don't judge?
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I know this is a re-upload but I'll say it again: that lil snail tatt is adorable!!!
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People are people, they will always try to dictate how you feel and what you're supposed to do with your life. It's awesome that you 2 are just focusing on being happy and loving each other.
