How To Deal With Conflict

Taking A Sand "I do not hit. It hits all itself," Bruce Lee once said. There is a lot of wisdom hidden in that. For a very long time, I didn't defend myself against others at all. Then came a time when I learned to defend myself against others. Then I learned to defend myself against myself. And everything comes together through this opening quote. And you free yourself from others and from yourself. Because it's not just others who attack us. We attack ourselves, or we convince ourselves to attack others. Or others hit us and as a consequence we hit ourselves. And by not hitting or not striking, I protect others and myself from myself. And I protect myself from others by not hitting myself in addition after they have hit me and I have hit myself in response. At the same time, if you hit a punching bag too hard or too often, it swings back. This means: "It hits all by itself." You protect yourself from others. This art is a mastery, but one that will pay off in the long run. Because freedom from others and from yourself is the reward for taking a stand. Counting The Hits As a compassionate person, you are often the victim of bullies who want to insult, bully or, in the worst case, hit you. Or even fellow human beings who hurt you. If I counted all the hits in my life, there would be very very many. But I'm counting the hits now. All insults or even jokes that hurt me are accepted and integrated. I don't even have to like it, but I still count all the hits and keep a list. When attacks become fuel, you take the energy of the bullies and your fellow human beings and transform it into your own energy. Standing Strong I count my hits and carry them proudly. How proud i am to look at how often people hurt me and im still standing strong.

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Unity strategies are needed... “No two men can be found who may be said to be outwardly and inwardly united. The evidences of discord and malice are apparent everywhere, though all were made for harmony and union.” ~ Baha'i Faith

The main takeaway I got from this was to learn to understand how other people feel before I express my feelings.

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It's interesting because it is the best way to conflict with everyone

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Very good information even though i wont use it irl

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if u wants smthn fight and win dont let the other person win