WHY YOU NEED TO REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED

NARCDAILY -You Are Not Alone
NARCDAILY -You Are Not Alone
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Published 2024-07-19
Why you need to remember what happened. After the relationship has ended, you will be questioning yourself many times how did I get here? Did I do enough? Did they love me? Did they care about me? Could I have done more etc. You will be questioning yourself you will be ruminating. You will be missing the person that you were in the relationship with. This is the trauma bond that must be broken. You see the narcissist never had your best heart they didn’t then they don’t now and they won’t in the future. The narcissist is a master manipulator. This is why you need to keep reminding yourself of exactly what happened. All the gaslighting all of the silent treatment all the rage fits all the verbal abuse all of the financial abuse all of the mental abuse all the emotional abuse. This all took place you just didn’t know what you were in because you weren’t taught narcissistic abuse in school but you’ve lived it and now you’re healing and now you’re understanding that you are the priority that you come first second and third. You are stronger than you know so don’t give up don’t ever give up. Continue on the path moving forward each and every day and continue to remember what you experience and what you went through. There is a reason you’re here in the community and is so you can get your cup full and you can heal and in time in your time you will heal you will reach the pinnacle of indifference. Sending you positive, energy, energy and strength. Namaste

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All Comments (21)
  • @twotonecadillac7953
    God bless you, Andrew, and this whole community. I couldn't have done it without you all. I don't have enough space for all of the hearts needed, so everyone, please accept this one as yours. ❤ God bless you all.
  • @frugalissima2930
    Never think you can handle a relationship with a narcissist. They always win. You can only ever win by leaving.
  • @lindagodwin3680
    I will never forget what happened 💔 to me and I will never go thru that again! Peace is so valuable 😊😊❤🎉
  • @Mariposa62196
    I will never forget what happened and how it ends. Never again.
  • @Seven_709
    Once you heal, that relationship will disgust you. So glad I found this channel. 😊 Andrew is great and rain is so peaceful.
  • @catlady715
    You don’t want to dwell on things that happened and the relationship but you don’t want to look back at the relationship with rose colored glasses either.
  • @jeanneavery8232
    Andrew was the needle i found in my narcissistic haystack. I struggled for understanding since childhood searching for answers. I always felt less than. My narcissistic journey began with my mother. Then my husband. And, finally my business associate, who I moved with to Oaxaca, Mexico. It's been 2 years since I found Andrew. I was 74 years old. No one else speaks to me the way he does. Perhaps it's because he isn't afraid to acknowledge his own jjourney. Andrew has saved my life. Never give up the search. The teacher will come when the student is ready. Andrew is the best teacher you will ever find. 100% NO CONTACT with the narcissist. Namaste.
  • @Goethe2andFro
    Not only can they not change, they don't want to change.
  • @pennyhay9061
    My lightbulb moment! My husband researched "MY" condition!!!!! And reported me his findings!!!!! BYE BYE
  • @dontbeadogsbody3564
    I have so many emails over almost 3 decades to him, trying to help, understand, apologize, appeal, get on the same page, etc. and he NEVER RESPONDED. It was his way of just making everything go away. No paper trail. No acknowledgment. No validation. And certainly no investment in being an actual couple, a team. Instead, he just focused on undermining and sucking me dry. So glad to never have to see him again.
  • @bethseitz8830
    I still don’t believe I made it! Peace and freedom is pure bliss!
  • @tedtuira6415
    When I read my old notes I can see exactly where I was at that point in my healing journey. Its crazy when you look back and are out of the fog and see how insane your life actually was! So glad I escaped!!
  • @user-dj8vl2mq2y
    The aging narcissist, he is 67, told me that a 41 year old female at work told him that she could not believe he was that old, she thought he was around her age.🤣🤣 What a freakin joke. I wanted to tell him that she was just trying to be nice and stroke his ego. He is delusional, there is no way he looks like he is in his 40's. I just can't with him anymore.🤯
  • @steveobaby6048
    Good afternoon Andrew this is day 3 of me blocking the narcissist she left a voicemail yesterday telling me to call her but I didn't give in I don't need distractions in my life
  • @spacesloth6496
    I forgive and wil not forget. The torture in my life. 😢❤❤❤
  • @ZxxXuxu
    The narc in my life is away for work. Today I mentioned to him that my blood pressure is high. He changes the subject. I try to bring the subject back to my health, again, I am ignored. The narcs only want you when you can give something to them. Once your resources are depleted, they start looking for a new supply.
  • @etaokha4164
    I can never forget how he treated me when I was pregnant. Never and I can't forgive him