This SKILL Is Our #1 Human Superpower | Charles Duhigg X Rich Roll Podcast

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Published 2024-02-22
Rich sits down with Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Charles Duhigg to discuss his new book Supercommunicators. This discussion explores the neuroscience and psychology that shape our interactions and connection with others, and much more. To read more about Charles and peruse the full show notes, go here 👉🏾bit.ly/richroll815
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:56 Weaving Storytelling into Non-Fiction
00:03:56 Supercommunicators and How Conversation Matters
00:06:09 Finding Mood and Intention in Conversation
00:08:45 Vulnerability in Communication
00:10:22 Golden Age of Understanding Communication
00:11:28 What Makes a Super Communicator?
00:14:03 Neural Entrainment in Communication
00:15:04 Connection and Happiness
00:16:26 Connectedness and Long-Term Well-Being
00:18:14 Conversation as Negotiation?
00:22:27 Deep Questions and Authenticity
00:24:26 Understanding Others' Perspectives
00:27:12 Authenticity in Communication
00:30:33 Urgency of Genuine Communication
00:32:17 A Learning Mindset in Conversation
00:33:16 Sponsor Break
00:34:39 Civil Conversation Experiment
00:35:34 Looping for Understanding
00:37:03 Training and Experiment
00:37:32 Online Communication Experiment
00:38:17 Adapting Communication
00:39:23 Impact of Communication Format
00:40:02 Online Discourse Reflection
00:42:02 Rehab Experience
00:46:18 Vulnerability and Connection
00:47:20 Optimism and Humility in Conversation
00:48:45 Strategy for Difficult Conversations
00:54:24 The Importance of Understanding
00:56:11 The Matching Principle
01:00:01 A Former NASA Psychiatrist's Vetting Process
01:04:11 Sponsor Break
01:07:45 Controlling the Parameters of a Conversation
01:10:38 Leadership and Respect in a Meeting
01:15:03 Habitual Super Communicators
01:16:46 Tools for Effective Conversation
01:19:01 Addressing Avoidant Conversations
01:22:08 Deep Listening
01:25:34 Pressure of Writing Another Successful Book
01:29:30 Personal Impact of Writing 'The Power of Habit'
01:31:16 The Importance of Connection for Changing Habits
01:33:16 Insights from Intimate Relationships and Family Dynamics
01:37:56 Understanding Habit Formation and Addiction
01:41:29 Transformation, Habit Change and Self-Reflection
01:44:40 The Power of Transformation and Growth
01:49:02 Connecting with Oneself
01:51:10 The Science of Small Wins and Momentum
01:52:30 The Mystery of Change
01:54:36 The Process of Change and Self-Discovery
01:56:53 The Power of Storytelling and Empathy
01:59:05 Optimism for Raising Consciousness in Communication
02:02:01 Closing Remarks
02:03:15 Credits

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All Comments (21)
  • I had an aha moment when they discussed how breaking an old habit is much harder and more meaningful than starting a new one.❤
  • REVELATION! Communication is my love language! I am totally driven by it. It has looked like crushing on people but I realize it is the communication that drives me! Thank you for unlocking in me something I've been craving for so long.
  • @lydiasharp6070
    Touched beyond words by your mutual respect and willingness to stretch along perhaps unfamiliar paths to better connection.
    Thanks guys!
  • @gaBetibu
    . . . gentlemen, I'm trying to get to sleep, but just can't tear myself away from your, this most riveting chat...you two are both so uniquely insightful & also fun to listen to & learn from....too, too much fun learning & entertaining....God Bless You Both... 🙂
  • This might be overly biased in favour of extroverts (like most social concepts); the notion that the more social connections you have, the healthier you'll be in old age seems a little over-simplistic and generalizing.

    Ultimately, good health seems to correlate with being at peace with who one is and with the world surrounding us, whatever state that may represent for the individual in question. Extroverts tend to be less at peace when they have fewer social connections, introverts have the huge advantage of frequently being at peace in solitude and in their own company. It's therefore not entirely accurate to say that genuinely introverted individuals would be better off having to manage and connect with a greater number of people.

    Indeed, the inverse could be said: for introverts, a basic minimum of meaningful social connections (which is not to say none) could be conducive to good health in old age, whereas for extroverts they may significantly suffer under those circumstances in which introverts tend to thrive.

    All that being said, still an interesting conversation.
  • @CandiceLMossArt
    Brilliant talk! I truly wish I could have grown up with this knowledge being dropped not only at home but at school. Thank you both for the work you are doing!
  • @famzini4424
    We don’t know enough about ourselves until we describe ourselves to somebody else
  • @ginnybraun8576
    Love, love the interchange between these brilliant men, Thank you Rich! Great interview!!❤
  • Love, ❤Rich’s perspective that comes from the heart. I never heard of this author, Charles Duhigg. I think he can benefit from your growth experiences and choices. The focus on communications, the art of storytelling and business by journalist Duhigg was interesting. Emotional intelligence is something I am hearing about here. TYVM❤❤
  • @sandralee3990
    Thank you for allowing us to be on your journey. Proud that you elevated yourself well. Yes you did well in your ads too. You can be a model too.
    In these times of misinformation where we are also suppressed, communication skills are still important.
  • @whobark
    You have no idea how much the power of habit changed my perspective on habits
  • @Taaashuhhh
    The Power of Habit changed my life.💖
  • I just absolutely loved this deep, fun and unpredictable conversation! I learned a lot and laughed a lot! You keep rocking Rich!!! Thank You both for the inspiring insights and your humor! Warm greetings from Prague, Czechia.
  • @roniesousa1587
    This is excellent!! I learned so much and and love the way Rich interacts with the guest
    Thank you to provide us such useful and meaningful subject
  • @naturejelisabeth
    Thank you for sharing💜Such interesting perspectives & tools. Will re-watch and take notes!