6 Signs He's Emotionally Investing in You (in order!)

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Published 2022-09-23
Learn how to tell if a man is falling for you from the VERY beginning of dating through the early stages of commitment - these signs always apply!
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Does he care about me? How can I tell if a man is catching feelings? What are the signs that a guy is falling in love? I hear questions like this a LOT a lot from my clients and students, so I created a video sharing 6 classic indicators that a man is opening his heart you in the order they occur, from the early stages of dating through when a relationship deepens!

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All Comments (21)
  • 1. Courts you from the very beginning 2. Plans ahead like a boss 3. He's responsive to your needs and desires 4. He plays with you (teasing, challenging, laughing) 5. He treats you like his partner in shine 6. He wants to share you with his world
  • Omg!!! I’ve hit the jackpot. I am a widow and he is a widower. We found each other and sparks flew!! After three months he shows all these signs. We’re a lucky couple with another chance for love
  • @ggultraps
    Never dated a guy that ticked all of these until now. We haven't been together super long but we are so well suited to each other ❤️
  • @shahadahgrant5864
    🥺🥺🥺 this video just saved me. I thought my boyfriend wasn't emotionally invested in me but after i watched it. My new statement is " my boyfriend is emotionally invested, I just didn't know how men show it. He checked all the boxes expect shine i need more clarity. I have an amazing partner. Not understanding how men are, almost cost me a great relationship. I thought me and him weren't connecting
  • @nadew.02
    I'm in my second year of uni and I see a lot of my classmates rushing to get into a relationship. I currently don't want to go through a relationship because of trauma I'm healing from and the guys I see around me are just not it. After seeing this video, I realized I am right for waiting for a man that would treat me right and that I'm willing to give that love and respect back. Thank you so much
  • This is so wholesome and pure! I’ve just subscribed. Thank you so much for this beautiful, positive, optimistic content 🥹🙏✨
  • @brandib8770
    Your advice on surrendering to his plan for us was so life changing for me. Thank you
  • @lau4545
    I think this video is super helpful, both for realizing that "he's just not that into you", but also for realizing that he IS, particularly when you're dating one of the no-emotion-talk specimens. When my bf and I started dating, I used to wonder why I felt so secure and sure that he liked me and was all in even though he never said it and wasn't doing any of the "romcom courting behaviors" like buying flowers or sweet talking or singing underneath my window at night. :D Turns out he ticked all the boxes on this list and I must have subconsciously felt it.
  • Thank you for sharing these tips. It really helps to see things from a guys perspective instead of what we (women) always think snd want.
  • Brilliantly helpful video.. I’ve bern badly hurt in the past and tend to be insecure, but by watching Matt’s videos this has helped me to understand myself better, and thereby I’m more able to understand relations more. My boyfriend is not a romantic person (just occasionally!) but he’s ticked all the boxes in your video and this has really encouraged me as it’s helped me to see and understand the love my boyfriend has for me, and I for him! Thanks Matt.
  • @kelligray1848
    This makes me full great. He’s already shared things about me with his boss, co worker, sister, kids… everyone in his world knows about me.
  • @rietta1166
    Everything u mentioned here is happening for me right now, thanku for the confirmation. However ,as for the #1: sign we both don't believe in sharing everything on social media.. It's better 2 keep some things private.
  • @Star-dz3ei
    I needed this intel on pretty much right on signs a guy is invested in us ladies. We don't want to be a secret or a side piece. Awesome video. Thank you!!
  • I’ve been following your channel because I enjoy your content and delivery. Thank you for that. Now to hear your an Austinite too, makes me an even bigger fan!
  • Thank you very much…. You do such a great job on the videos. Much appreciated. ❤