The Value Realization (A Realization That Can Completely Change Your Self Worth)

It’s like an unspoken rule to watch a Teal vid at least twice. The second time you always hear something that you missed the first time 😄

To do list:

1. Relocate

No-one intentionally chooses to have low self-esteem, it's usually an effect of negative conditioning. But until we learn to overcome it by loving and accepting ourselves as we are, we'll never progress.

THIS WOMAN CONTINUES TO REVOLUTIONIZE MY LIFE WITH EACH VIDEO.

So powerful, if I don’t add value to someone life, my value is somewhere else.

Sometimes your "value" might be difficult to pinpoint, because it might be something like emotional attunement, presence, intuition, spirituality etc. And your parents might not value this because they associate it with things like lack of control, shame, not matching their self image... They might not directly discourage it, but just ignore it and try to encourage other qualities.

This is very valuable for me now. I realized my relationships were incompatible because there was a huge difference between what the other person valued in me and what I wanted to be valued for, also vice versa.

I always feel like Teal is talking directly to me and like she knows exactly what's going on in my life. I'm grateful for Teal!

Welp, I definitely cried hearing the horse story 🥺

My life story. Being depressed in a 100% incompatible family I’m trying my best to find the places and people that can make me feel I belong.. 🙏

The whole point of this video ultimately, is that although connection and community is very important, our SELF value is vital. We are the ones who ultimately control our own needs being met so we should value ourselves humbly but hugely. Our own value to ourselves should be everything, the of course go looking for others who need who we are. Always remember tho, if/when their needs change, your value to them decreases. Your value to yourself should always be primary tho, because you’ll never not need yourself. And of course because we are magical, beautiful and magnificent.

I love you. There's way to many spiritual teachers out there that just talk about love and light. They don't want or won't get real about life. They don't talk about real problems or what they call the dark. This world needs you. YOU ARE REAL.

I totally recomend you guys to read Non Violent Communication from Marshall Rosenberg. It's a gold book that teaches us to get in contact with our needs and to develop much better relationships. It was life changing to me as I value self growing and self knowledge.

I came to a similar conclusion regarding value when I devoted a New Years resolution about self-worth in 2018. I realized that the biggest challenge for my self-worth and self-love was the chronic wound of rejection. It was so important to embrace these rejection feelings for me to reach the state of unconditional self-love. Rejection helped me meet my fears and befriend them. Suddenly the reasons I felt worthless began to melt away. Shadow work!!! Value is based on need and I need me! I mean I am needed by others but ultimately I’m in a feedback loop where pleasure, desire and expansion echo the gratitude I have for my embodiment. No longer suicidal (not afraid of being suicidal) I have emerged a little bit more able to see what I do or have the potential to be. Thank you Teal because you’re the first person I trusted to show me a different, more pleasurable aspect of being in relationship to self-love and how to do it. It didn’t work all the time but it worked enough for me to get started. I love you.

I realised that I need myself, the qualities I have are exactly what I would look for in a person. Therefore I can appreciate myself and to me I worth a lot and It is evidenced that there are people (although not many) who also appreciate me for those qualities in reality.That’s enough.
My self-esteem issue comes from a place that I did not see my own values, I base my values on how others see them, their needs. But the truth is I do have a lot of worth to me and I can see that now.
Thank you

This is so good

‘Something’s worth is entirely dependent upon somebody who has the needs that that thing meets.’ ✨

Interesting too that the word "worship" started out as "worth-ship" - recognizing the "worth"of everyone and everything. "Ship" like in friendship, relationship, etc. (the state of...) The state of recognizing worth. It got hijacked by religion and turned into "worship" which turns worth over to some "higher being" to whom we must bow.

Absolutely Teal, especially when you’re talking about the honesty of kids.
We spend their first year’s trying to teach them how to talk and communicate, then spend the rest of their lives telling them to shut up, conform, don’t tell lies but don’t speak your truth 🤔🤷‍♀️😵‍💫
We can learn so much from them

I remember, when I was a teenager, I really wanted to have social connections so I adapted myself to their values, but it was so painful for me to do what everybody was doing (I even thought it was absurd) that I decided to be myself and be happy even if that meant to be alone and be seen like an alien.