A Lack of Boundaries Invites a Lack of Respect 💯

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I definitely agree! I had to enforce my boundaries.. Like they say, “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” Protect your energy at all cost! 💯

It’s not always about setting the boundaries but..: Enforcing them!!!

I set boundaries with my ex a few months ago and I haven’t heard from her since. 😂

Setting boundaries with FAMILY AS WELL. That's also very important too.

Boundary violators. They’re everywhere!!! This is a common topic in my therapy sessions.

They Say it Stems From Childhood Who Raised You Comes to Mind. These People Will Not Respect You.

I do recommend setting boundaries. Then you will see who stays and who walks away when they can no longer use you for their own gain.

Currently dealing with this. Many men confuse kindness with weakness. He has taken advantage of my kindness one too many times. Now that I'm being more assertive he's questioning "us." My thing is don't expect me to be cool with you doing to me anything that you wouldn't want me doing to you. If you know you're not done playing around or you feel like you might miss something if you get in a relationship, cool, but go be a bachelor in your own space or be with someone who's okay with it. Don't try to live with someone when you know y'all are not on the same page or don't want the same thing. Be a man about it. Maybe it's bad timing. Maybe it's not meant to be. Either way a decent person with integrity wouldn't play games.

Courting/dating in 2019 requires you to have boundaries and listening to what the Holy Spirit is saying about a person!

I agree or else the person will take full advantage and run over. Also, from a spiritual perspective, the devil is good at using that against us. "CHRISTIANS are supposed to be nice and forgiving", as if saying no is a crime/sin. Saying no is necessary and healthy at times. We don't have to be rude, but we should have healthy boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of. Thanks for the video!

I totally agree!!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 I get told my “boundaries” or “standards” are too high but I disagree. I believe it’s necessary to have both of these in place. When the time is right, the right person will come and they will respect what I stand for! I’m not afraid at all to say NO lol! ❤️

So true. When I finally,after many years far too many years,set boundaries for my former mate in a nice way he dipped out and quickly found another victim. I've never been happier.

I struggle to enforcing my boundaries. Working on enforcing my boundaries & not give people too many chances!

Sometimes the people violating your boundaries don’t take a no for an answer when you’re being nice about it.

Sir....that was a WORD as they say. 😉Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Keep growing in your God given purpose.

I too agree. I overshared with my friend my personal problems and now she started using my infos against me and started disrespecting and Judgeing I should have not allowed that person to much close to me

If theirs one thing I know about myself, my "NO's" are very powerful.

"I simply have to let you know that this is unacceptable and this needs to change, and if you're unwilling to embrace that and make the necessary changes, then you have to go!" Exactly! Lmao!!!

Peace.. Facts... The same with children..