How Good Men Think During the COURTING STAGE

Courting is the intention and understanding that marriage is the goal 👑👑

Currently seeing a man that does all of these things & it’s so refreshing. I hope it works out

I am single and I don't want to date anyone but the Man that's interested in marrying me! So yes if you find me, there is no other man involved! I take my life and love seriously 🖤

Even as a teenager I was never attracted to flashy or boastful “men”. Quality over Quantity always!!!

Courting is Dating with means to marry. Biblically speaking the court ship was all about the man showing his worth to the woman’s father. I miss those days 😂

This is interesting. On my first date I had a guy ask me to leave the tip. He made a comment about being taken advantage of by women. I took that as a red flag. My instincts were right. The relationship never went anywhere because he could never make time for me because he loved working. After about 60 days of wasting my time I told him I was going in a different direction and blocked him. He never responded. Anytime a man is concerned about his money, back away. He loves it, more than he'll ever love you. Life is about people. An emotionally immature man won't grasp that until it's too late.

He is so right. I met a guy who I thought was a good guy in the beginning. He lead with his money 1st date he told me he was retired and had a good pension so.he was able to afford me. Ok I was flattered 2nd date while ordering our food and pretty young girl was our waitress he was very friendly didn't think anything of it. After ordering when the young lady brought our food he began asking her questions about herself I thought how rude by the end of us leaving the restaurant he knew her name where she was from how many siblings she had basically dam near her life story. Ask her more questions than he ask me. That was such a turnoff. I didn't say anything but was very observant. I thought maybe he is friendly. Next date I witness him talk so bad about a homeless person he didn't even know. So I'm taking all this in. 3rd and last date for me because his character was trash.

My mind was fixing your collar the whole time 🤣😏

1. When a man takes the initiative to invite you out, that means that you do not have to pay

“Pay attention to what people lead with.” So good! It’s so easy to get caught up in the superficial, outside appearances instead of applying discernment or just plain-old common sense. So important for me to continually guard my heart, be honest with myselfand look for red flags before I’m in way too deep.

I went on a “date” with a man on a Friday night. He arrived and let me know he had already had dinner, and only brought $20 for his beer. I told him that I would appreciate it, if next time he’d plan better and share this pertinent info with me. I ordered a drink and appetizers (which we shared and I paid the tab - he contributed his $20). The date was fine, but low energy from him; however after he offered to walk me to my car, he pounced. His tongue was like a pry bar trying to gain action to my mouth. I stopped him and told him I’d like to know him better and he apologized. He sent me texts over the next few days and pictures of activities he was doing. I started feeling better about him then he blew it. He asked to see me before going on vacation and did not provide any specifics. I followed up with him, and was told he’d see me 45 minutes after another date? All I could think was wtf and whether he was exchanging fluids before he met me the previous date. Yuck. I declined his invitation and he asked why. I gave him an honest answer and he replied he was insulted by how I viewed his behaviour. Sad thing is, this wasn’t the worst date I’ve had. I would really like to meet a man who wants to get to know me. Is that too much to ask?

Thank you! I get tired of going back and forth with women who accuse me of acting privileged because I don't pay on the first date. I'm old school. 🤷🏽‍♀️ And the Lord has a cloak of invisibility on me. 🥴😂 So my future husband should feel special when he finds out that he has zero competition. 😅

Took your advice and binge-watched, realised this is a 'smart woman's guide to understanding men' & Bro, I hit that subscription button so fast, my thumb nearly snapped❤️ You a real G for this.

That intro though.. smooth.. 😂🤣🤣🤣

You are the REALEST...I love your channel. As a woman I find your logic helpful, insightful and beneficial.

Its the intro/walking in for me🤗 keep bringing it on

Dated a man (briefly) who was constantly virtue signaling and it was such a turn off. He tried too hard to tell me he had good character. No need to tell me, show me. Let your actions speak for themselves

My new man was soooo interested in me when we met and about a month after we met. Suddenly, he pulls back and we barely talk anymore. He's not putting any effort anymore. It takes him hours to text back now. I really liked him but I think he has a many who give him more attention. 😕

Love ur content man. Keep up the good work. Peace

Loved the "switch it up" video introduction...accompanied by the smile and enhanced by the ASMR skid... Instant thumbs up!