Ignoring You? What to Do If He Pulls Away | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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A man pulls away and you’re telling woman to text asking if he has given up on her and telling him you miss him??? Lol oh my goodness. Woman don’t do that. If a guy disappears let him

"Don't hold yourself accountable for his behaviour" - that's an important lesson

I just say, NEVER CHASE!! You're too good for that. He should be chasing you, and if he's not, he's not good enough for you!! 💖

I get absolutely bored if a guy pulls away and doesn't respond or stick to what he says he will. It shows me what I have in store in that connection in the future, which is nothing fun or respectful or considerate. So I don't reach out. And they always come back but I have no interest by then. And it allows me to make more space for the more considerate, consistent and feel good guys. I love that.

Dating sets the stage for how the relationship will be. It teaches people how to treat you. If he's doing this during the dating process, he will continue. You have to set standards. Stop allowing people to disrespect you and waste your time. Remember, you're worth it! You don't have to tolerate the nonsense. Love yourself and others will love you too! Remember, it's okay to be single. You are not defined by being in a relationship. In society, there's a stigma about single women. As if, something is wrong with you if you're single. We need to lose this mindset. Also, get a life. Like Matt said. Dress up. Go out with friends. Go out on dates even if it's by yourself. But have a good time! Live your best life. The right people will gravitate towards you. That's including the right man. Always remember. Man's rejection is God's protection! Since I've reentered The Dating Game, that's what I've learned. That's what helps me. Maybe it would help someone else.

Let it be, if a man does not communicate don't chase. A woman knows her worth :) and if he never justify the things he do. Move on and find a man who can meet your standards :).

If they do despite I let them know I'm interested, I follow up once in a loving, respectful, assertive, also playful manner. If he still pulls away, I don't take it personally. I move on, go on with my busy life, and keep dating other guys. I agree with you Mat, there are plenty of amazing guys out there. Whoever wants you will put the effort, communicate, be vulnerable, take you on dates, spend time, respect you and appreciate you😊 Thank you Mat💕

It's more then frustration it's hurting

Thank you Matt! Best advice ever! This text response worked on my guy. Everything was going great and we were spending a lot of time together then out of no where he pulled back and told me he needed to “figure some things out” in his life. My abandonment wounds came to the surface lol and I asked if we could talk and he told me not yet. Then I sent him a few other texts expressing my frustration that he was ignoring me… got nothing. About two months passed, I was really still confused and frustrated that he hadn’t reached out yet. Even after I had been on some other dates, I still couldn’t shake the feeling. I came across this video and texted him exactly what you said, “ Ok it’s been months…I take it you’ve given up on us??” and he immediately replied! He told me that his life was being uprooted and he needed to move 3 hrs away to take care of his grandfather & he just doesn’t know what he wants right now. He apologized for leaving me in the dark and says he does miss me. With all that being said, It does work ladies!! However, I believe it only worked that well because I was able to step back and focus on myself in the meantime! I pray that everyone reading this gets the clarity they need. It sucks feeling stuck like you can’t move on. Just know if I can do it so can you! My #1 advice is to find you a support system who will listen and validate your feelings you aren’t crazy for needing reassurance.❤️ Edit: Make sure that when he come back that you also have your boundaries! Just because he comes back doesn’t always mean it’s for the right reasons. Guard your heart ladies!

it's distresses me that too many women self blame especially at the beginning of a relationship

This kind of thing is why I don’t want to bother with dating. I don’t have time and energy to deal with all the emotional ups and downs. I’m used to being single, and even prefer it a lot of the time.

I’m talking to a guy long-distance and not calling as often as I would like. After a day of no communication, he texted me his almost-daily “good morning” text, I texted him “I like it when you send me a text, but I would love it if you call me”. He called me instantly, later that day we FaceTime’d for the very first time!

I don't chase... I will focus on myself as I knew my value and worth.

Great advice, thank you for sharing every Saturday 😊

❤️ Totally the right strategies . Thanks Mat 👍

Thanks a lot! This indeed serves me. I have nothing to add but say thanks a lot for your help to saving me time and heading for my goal with more confidence

Thank you for all the videos you are creating. Always the best ❤

First, let me say...you do not need to be wrapped up in any relationship or chasing a man down like a hunter. It's ok to be alone and living your best life with family and friends and your own quiet alone time and pursuing your own interests and hobbies! That's a beautiful situation,however, I had a few scenarios! I almost always mirror his actions and I find out that is the quickest way to see his interest level. A few times, I reached out first and they waited a day or 2 to respond and we then dated but it didn't last and a few just flat out ghosted. Usually, in my personal experience, when he has pursued me, that is where my LTR s all came from.

Thank-you Matt, great advice as usual.