A NICE MAN IS NOT NECESSARILY SAFE - You Must Use Wisdom. By R.C. BLAKES

Abusers are some of the nicest people you will ever meet.

If you do not rush, he will reveal...he is NOT nice. We as women talk too much!!

Another thing to take into consideration....a nice guy might just be that...a nice guy. Being nice doesn't mean he is relationship/husband material.

A toxic man gets uncomfortable with a slow pace.

Yes ladies and gentleman please take heed to what he is saying. I have an ex that have narcissistic personality disorder. He started out very kind. Taking me to dinner, buying me things that I needed and wanted, doing things for my mom and son, pumping my gas for me, and so on and so forth. But he slowly starting showing his true colors. Especially when he realized I was hooked. He would say little rude remarks to me. He would flirt with other women in front of me. I found countless dm's that he sent to people via Facebook. He have most people fooled. I felt like I was losing a piece of myself everyday. I had suicidal thoughts when I was with him. I feel as though he had something to do with that subconsciously. I believe he knew he was on assignment to destroy me. He got pleasure in knowing that I was suffering. Videos like this saved me. They gave me the strength and wisdom that I needed to end that relationship. God bless everyone.

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“The more appealing a man is upfront, the more cautious a woman should be” #Facts

Men like to speak Christianese when they want to get through to a woman who loves the Lord. But their intentions are rarely pure.

This is why I’m a FIRM believer that we should not discuss details about your Ex. Past relationships should remain in the past. Let the new person be themselves without info of your past.

So called nice guys often play the victim.

Everyone is on their best behavior at first. Overtime, people will reveal their true selves. Be patient - don't rush.

yes starts out like little house on the prarie and ends up like nightmare on elm st,

They all seem nice at first!

A few of the men that come DIRECTLY to mind in regards to men saying the right things to us women is Matt Hussey, Derrick Jaxn and Stephan Speaks... these men do not have an incredibly obvious relationship with their “woman” nor do they brag about any woman in their life as does Blake’s, Gaskins, or Hicks.. it always rubbed me the wrong way that they act like they care so much about their audience but they have no woman of their own who they cherish.. bye sir. I only listen to men who openly have relationships with their leading lady and are NOT afraid to talk about it!

This is so true. I was dating a Christian man for 1 month and he was so polite and always paid for everything when we went out and he bought me anything I needed... Then, one day he text me saying his daughter came to visit from out of state, so I told him we should go miniature golfing with our daughter's since they are both 16 years old, but he text me back saying, his daughter would not want to see him dating anyone while he is going through a divorce. So... That's how I found out he is still married. He just said it like it was nothing to him and as if I was supposed to be ok with it. I ended it right then and there. Getting to know someone and giving them time to show their true colors is so important.

Also what I've told myself is" Every man that enters your life, you are not meant to sleep with him."

often times men who is to nice turn out to be your covert Narcissist

I'm at the point I don't want to date at all. To many liars, time wasters and manipulators these days with zero accountability and liars as well.

Nice isn't security. Nice doesn't display integrity in tough times or when you need to be seen as an emotional being. Nice is often suffocating and comes with the implications of getting something in return. You owe them nothing.