DETACH: how to actually protect your energy, become magnetic & achieve your goals
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Published 2024-05-18
This is how you detach in dating, manifesting and daily life! In this video I explain what detachment is and what it isn’t. We go through all the misconceptions and all the ways detachment can transform your life! I share many examples, tips & tricks + exercises to introduce this practice into your life. Detachment is the key to creating the life you want and get more peace of mind. By adopting a detached mindset you can start building your dream life and stop wasting your time and energy on things that are not in your control, or simply not worth it! xx
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timestamps:
00:00-02:31 detachment
02:31-04:13 tip 1
04:13-04:54 tip 2
04:54-08:21 tip 3
08:21-10:20 tip 4
10:20-12:56 tip 5
12:56-13:21 tip 6
13:21-18:03 tip 7
18:03-21:24 tip 8
21:24-23:18 tip 9
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All Comments (21)
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Nika, I’m halfway through the video but got the urge to tell you. It’s such a beautiful gift you’re giving us to pass on all your knowledge about healing. Like this you turned it all around and maybe you see all this “suffering” yourself as a gift now. I got so much out of your videos already and I’m just very grateful for it. THANKS for being you 🧡
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Yes! Plz talk more about detachment in relationships! And getting your finances together as a separate topic lollll
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Now I understand detatchment. THANK YOU, your channel is precious
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You are just an inspiration . I found real comfort whenever I listen to you. As someone who is really into self care and mental wellness your videos helped a lot❤
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because of you, I am experiencing an incredible rebirth❤ my life, feelings and relationships completely changed and 1000% improved bc of you Nika, forever greatful to you!!
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one of the only YouTube channels/ podcast videos that give genuinely good and caring advice. Thank you 🩷
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There’s a difference between controlling behavior and wanting respect. I have no time to control a man but he will respect me. I want him to do him. I encourage it but respect me. I respect him. I practiced this and he cheated on me. I did not take him back. I stood in my word and still do. Once they or I make the decision to leave, it ain’t no coming back. I will continue to do this because the right one will come around.
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Love this message! Detaching to the outcome truly is the secret ingredient to manifesting! I was single all of my twenties and it wasn’t until I completely let go and detached from my yearning for love, that I finally met the love of my life!
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Watching you makes me realise , "if nika can, i can too" .......😊
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She says: "I hope this video helped you out..." I'll be honest, this video seems like it was made for me since it covered everything I've been thinking about. I'm glad to keep coming back to your channel to find gems like this. Currently traveling the world to "find myself" and this video hit home more than anything. You're an amazing example of what someone looks like when they appreciate themselves.
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Yes, please, detachment in relationships !! Can’t wait for that video! I really love this topic and this video is amazing as always, thank you Nika, your videos have helped me tremendously throughout the past year, I can’t express this enough. Thank you ❤
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Yess! How to detach in romantic relationship episode ❤
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I will watch this so many times to soak up every word. Thank you for being so aware of how to overcome and reframe situations for so many women.
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Hello Nika! thank you soooo much for this amazing and useful video. I would love to see a video about detachment in relationships, I think this is a hard one for me and I tend to control many situations to not feel rejection or to suffer. All the best 💕
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So good ! You can’t control the outcome & it’s so true because manifesting has people trying to manipulate outcomes and control things to happen and you can’t!
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The concept of detachment as a strategy for conserving energy and focusing on personal growth is powerful and transformative. Embracing this can indeed create a magnetic presence by allowing us to invest in our self-worth rather than external outcomes. 🌟
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This video made me follow you, and now I'm binge-watching all of your videos while working.
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Nika, for the last 2-3 days I have been constantly researching videos on this topic, as if you knew - thank you! 🤗🖤 Also, I really like the example with the tornado 🌪😊
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Nice topic! Detachment is very key to our own happiness. I´ve been practicing it for more than a year now, and it has improved many things in my life, specially my Self esteem.
