Overcoming Loneliness, Discontentment & Inadequacy

I know I'm not your audience, but I ran into your videos one day and God has used you to help me in my spiritual walk, especially in where my self-worth is (I tend to have my worth based on what others think of me and comparing to others), singleness, and loneliness. I appreciate what you do, and God bless.

Please pray for my teen daughter. She is struggling with major self esteem issues.

You are truly a blessing!!!! And such a great example for us young women in the world!

Wow.. When you said, "Maybe why the reasons you don't have friends is because you put all of your hope in them, more than you do in God. He needs to separate you for a season from some people so you learn to trust in Him alone..", I was trying so hard to hold back the tears. That definitely spoke to me. I'm so thankful that I came across this video.

l'm only 12 minutes in and I'm being so blessed. When you said loneliness is his way of drawing us it made me cry. I have never thought of it that way. Thank you!

Hey Heather, please do a monthly teaching on the difference between spiritual disobedience and spiritual warfare. With love as the Lord leads you.

this is a message I needed to hear and I got lead to it right away. I'm lonely feel like nothing satisfies me. I know the answer is God but I feel like I can't commit daily in his word or forget what I read I feel sad everyday. but I love hearing all your messages all of them inspire me thanks for staying strong in Jesus.

I am very lonely, isolated, single never married, no children. I’m pushing 50 and I’m concerned about how long will i be alone. Lord why? I don’t want to die alone... I feel embarrassed that I’m a well accomplished woman growing old alone. I’m very emotional about my life, my future...

I hesitated watching this because I'm at the point where I'm very discontent etc. kept asking myself why aren't I ever satisfied and u answered and my heart accepted it. Gotta get back to the basics thank you!!!

I love your faithfulness in serving your sisters. You are truly setting a great example sis 💜

Hey Heather, can you please do a study on the connection between Health and Christianity? You mentioned it briefly but a full video would be awesome! I find that it's sadly not talked about a lot. Thank you and God Bless You! Great message.

Just joined the military and I feel as if I have no friends at all the ones I had weren’t the best for me I’m suffering with loneliness

Hey Heather, thank you so much for being led by God and doing this video. Definitely was for me, I'm an introvert and also I've been through childhood physical and emotional abuse so often I've struggled with the spirit of rejection, discontentment, loneliness and inadequacy. Like for me personally it was the friends thing and comparing my life to others, I felt like I needed to have alot of friends to feel happy and content so what I was doing is forcing myself to get into crowds trying to be something I'm not especially because of Facebook, wanting people to want me and wanting to be in the "popular" crowds and it just ended up creating a bigger hole in my heart so for my own sanity I permanently deleted Facebook 5 years ago. And now I'm happy with myself and I believe that God created me an introvert and He created me that way for a reason and there's nothing wrong with being one. I would literally sob and feel so lonely and unwanted sometimes because I would be the one constantly checking up on friends and when they wouldn't check up on me I'd get upset and feel so alone and this also opened a door for me to allow myself to be used alot of times by friends just because I wanted their friendship. I know all I need is Jesus and no one loves me like He does, He wants me, He wants to spend time with me, His never gonna leave or forsake me and His more than enough, like I see now that I was in idolatry but thank Jesus for this message, never will I put a human being on the pedestal that belongs to God alone! and I don't have to force to be something I'm not or force friendships with people because He will bring the right relationships into my life and people who will love me for who I really am. This video is so helpful and motivates me to just spend more time with Jesus. Heather, you are such a blessing to my life, God bless your family and ministry! N.B Please do a video on how to heal from childhood physical and emotional abuse, it would be highly appreciated because going through child abuse can literally affect the rest of your life, I know I'm still healing and I'm 27 this year but the memories don't go away. Thank you! Love from South Africa

Great message Heather I received that! Enemy kept taunting me how God has forsaken me in my trials because of my previous sins and I'm not good enough but I'm at that point where I surrender it all to him and I thank him for the trials that grow me closer and make me more like him

Heather you are so right! you said the devil is bullying us through social media etc!! YES!

I really needed to hear this. Thank you!

Lorddddd I NEEDED this!!🙋‍♀️

You have truly blessed me with this today

God bless you Heather! Much needed word!

This video is just what i needed! Thank you so much.