5 Ways Emotionally Intelligent People Manage Conflict

I think it’s important to an extent to embrace conflict, it’s not always necessary a bad thing! Learning how to handle it is crucial ☺️

"Don't expect people to be any different than they have always been" is an incredibly true statement. It really is important to manage expectations.

It's amazing how you seem to make videos on precisely those topics that I'm struggling with at the moment Thank you!

The old phrase "once, shame on you.....twice shame on me" Depending on a friend to show up at an agreed-to time and place..... when they have stood you up 3 times before.... Check your expectations hits the nail on the head. Why do I keep expecting different/better behavior when this friend continues to drink to the point of not remembering commitments. This says more about ME trying to make someone be who they are not.......

Excellent! Understanding how to deal with conflict is an invaluable skill

"Anyone can be angry--that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way--that is not easy." -Aristotle

Everything that you include on here is useful for me because I have been in the dark about so many things

So true, people are doing things for themselves not against us (majority of people at least) and our emotions get in the way - yes!

Ahhh yes! SO many of my clients are conflict avoidant. It can feel so hard to deal with the discomfort that comes up here. I love the way you describe this!!

"It's not against you. It's for them."

I really appreciated the idea of: more closeness with someone = more friction with them Or how avoiding conflict = bringing up conflict in the future So it's best to try to "resolve in a more productive way"! Thank you for your videos!

You’re changing my life, Julia!! Bless your wonderful heart and talents 💛🙏🏼

Thank you so much. You helped me understand my emotions and express my emotions in a much better way.

Thanks for this video Julia. I had a conflict today and it was the first time I didn't react, I found a place of neutrality and I'm proud of myself for following what you said in another video on passive aggressive people "I'm sensing you're feeling this way, can we talk about it?" I let the other person cry their all or nothings at me. And it felt like I was watching a movie, I managed to see that they were saying these hurtful things not because of me, but because they have a lot of inner negativity to deal with. Do these openings ring a bell "You always dismiss me... You never listen...", "I listen to people even though I don't want to, so I expect that of you too"? I can't change how this person behaves, but I can try to control myself.

Thank you for this video Julia! Sometimes we forget these things and its nice to be reminded.

Wow, first timer... You are Awesome...Thank you for being here for all of us ❤️

Information so needed! This seems like a way to greatly improve my relationship with myself as well as with others.

I absolutely love this video. Is so helpful I can't even start! Also I love how you frame and communicate your ideas. With clarity but also compassion. I love you Julia.thx a lot

This was soooo very helpful! Thank you for your easy to follow approach and reminding us all of our own empowerment! 🙏🏾

I’m back. Hello. I survived off all your videos and insight last year. Now it’s time to continue to grow and learn more. Thanks for shining light on serious “issues”!