Will YOUR Relationship Fail? 3 Questions to Find Out | Matthew Hussey

One of the best quotes I’ve ever come across that I now live by is: “empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.”

The hardest part is when you know what the right answer is but you still can’t find the strength to make the decision, because you’re so stuck on the happy moments and lovely qualities in this person. 😞💔😢 Lord help us all! 😩

Got chills when Matthew said when you get that quiet moment when you realize that "this is not what I want". I had that profound moment where my reality connected with my intuition. I had this moment right before I broke up with my boyfriend this year, where I realized "I do not deserve to be treated like this".

"Compassion without standards is a receipe for masochism" - 👏👏👏

Don’t change who you are just because someone treated you badly ,don’t let ugly in other kill the beauty in you

Incredibly Selfish + Really Charismatic is my fav dark pairing. Over and over again. I have to remind myself not to fall for someone’s potential.

I call them “Heart vs. Head” issues. Your head knows, but your heart won’t let you follow through. Matthew is teaching me to listen to my head.

Lacking of empathy + lacking of communication=inability to grow together nor make it work. The bell went on when you said « does it get easier? » thank you 🙏🏻

Not self aware and victim mentality.He never looked at what he did wrong in his relationships and always played victim, that is very dangerous coz he never worked on himself and always thought everyone was the problem!

When you question anything, that is your soul trying to guide you in the right direction. Everyone has a soul, but many can’t sit still and be quiet long enough to hear it.

I had a guy that was overly critical but also very hard to please and nothing I did was good enough. It was demoralising and soul destroying. Fortunately, I take the stance now that if I’m not enough for them, they should try to find somebody else rather than trying to change me into something I’m not. Ill be enough for the right people and I’m enough for me, that’s all that counts.

Intuition is the best guide , and ‘doesn’t matter what anyone says if you don’t feel good in their company then move on ✨😊

Once you seriously question if you should be with someone or not, there are already some problems, even if you don't want to acknowledge yet.

hate those videos on YT that say that there's only 1 question ,however,i certainly not agree with any of those -- they say only sex expereince . yes, i mean it's important but really the only sign? no! and i love those that say that and then just take their spanish fly enhancer and say it was their energy but actually wasn't as we know now after those drops

Selfish + unempathetic During breakup my ex told me he didn’t wanna be the one who learn certain things with me. I was upset but now I understand how he felt. I also didn’t wanna wait for him to become less selfish and empathetic. Those are very rooted traits that are hard to change. Boring + dishonesty

6:20 Q1 - Is their big flaw offset by a redeemable quality (that can neutralize that flaw)? 13:19 Q2 - Is it getting any easier? 16:25 Q3 - What decision do I feel drawn to in my wisest moment?

I had a partner who was conflict avoidant and overly sensitive. We couldn't have any sort of conversation about our relationships, or my needs, no matter how gently I presented something. Most of the time he would break up with me 😬. Learned a lot from that one.

The hardest thing I’ve ever done in relationship was to leave a wonderful man whose life was going in a very different direction from mine. Not a bad direction, but a direction, trajectory, that we both realized was not compatible. We’ve stayed dear friends for over 40 years, and I thank God we did not try to “make it work”. It would have been very draining and frustrating. We have the benefit of wanting the best for each other and seeing that we’d never have been able, at a core level, to give each other what we needed and wanted in life. We had four amazing years together, and parted as friends, supporters, cheerleaders. My life was so enhanced from knowing him. Much love and health to you, V.💖🥰

I think real love is when there's a red flag but both of you are willing to work through it together and become better and stronger together.

“Empathy without boundaries is self-destruction.” The most impactful quote my inspiration, my mom, has ever shared with me. This realization was a crucial part of one of the most pivotal moments in my life thus far.