How To Achieve SUCCESS FASTER Than 99% Of People (START DOING THIS) | Tom Bilyeu

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Published 2022-04-21
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If you’re like most people, odds are that you’re not exactly where you want to be in life.

But no matter what your definition of success is, or what you’re trying to accomplish, the simple truth is this: you’re not yet where you want to be because you don’t yet have the skills required to get there.

In this talk at the Ice House in Pasadena, CA, I dive deep into the hard truths about what it takes to become extraordinary, regardless of what you’re pursuing.

If you’re feeling stuck, lacking ambition, or just don’t think you’re good enough to get where you want to go, then buckle up because this talk will shake you out of your comfort zone and get you back on track to pursuing a life of fulfillment!


SHOW NOTES:
00:00 | Ambition vs. Drive
11:12 | Self-Worth and Achievement
19:07 | Grit Isn’t Sexy
30:34 | Permission to Fail
39:13 | The Ultimate Adaptation Machine
45:39 | The Brain That Changes Itself
56:28 | Being Average Is Enough


QUOTES:
“Fulfillment is often born of suffering. But it has to be suffering with a purpose.” [08:13]

“I'm not telling you not to chase money. I'm just saying it's not going to feed you emotionally the way you think it is.” [15:32]

“Facing what you've done wrong, owning it, accepting it, allows you to not make that mistake the next time.” [33:07]

“Every time something goes wrong in my life, I am asking myself one simple question. “What is it that I suck at?” I suck at something, there's something I'm doing wrong. By definition, if I were doing it right, then I would be getting the outcome that I wanted.” [37:50]

“The first step in this incredibly arduous journey that you're going to be on if you want to be extraordinary, is simply to believe you can become extraordinary.” [1:03:29]

All Comments (21)
  • @TomBilyeu
    What was your favorite takeaway from this keynote?
  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE GREAT TO START BUT YOU HAVE TO START TO BE GREAT—BLOSSOM JEFFERSON 💖.
  • @ericlessard5969
    One phrase I used a lot in the past that aligns with your philosophy is “Find joy in the process”. It helped me persevere even if I had a rough patch on the journey. Great content, love it. Keep inspiring us, it counts.
  • @NXIBAA
    The key to success is to never quit, belief in yourself, stay focused, and obviously do want 99.9% of the population will never do, which is to stay disciplined in ACHIEVING that goal no matter what the circumstances turn out to be.
  • @LucidAmethyst
    I never fail, I only succeed in finding out what to do better or differently next time. Also don't be a victim, we are the result of the choices we make, if you want a better life, it's time to make better choices. It's not the governments fault, the presidents fault, your bosses fault, or anyone else's fault, but yours.
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  • @Ryan-Horgan
    Advice for Young Men: Had a bad day? Think about how you’ll laugh back on this day when you write a book on your life. It’s barely going to be 2 sentences out of 400 pages. Keep growing.
  • @NathalieLazo
    If you’re watching this, I pray everything works out for you! ~❤️Nat
  • So much true, no bullshit about believing and visualizing... Tom is such a great and honest speaker. as an athlet I know that success is all about your stamina - it's all about how long you can keep suffering but moving towards your goal. if you can sustain the pain longer than others you will win. life is all about suffering. it's the only way to grow. I realized how simple it is: if you can do things that must be done even though you hate doing these if you re constistent about doing those things - you will win.. I m a former runner. I was an overweight girl just like Goggings and one day I decided to change myself. running built my character.
  • @riddlerhymes512
    I love this Tom. I've been following you since Inside Quest. I retired at the end of last year. I got my mind and body as strong as possible by following the advice of you and your many experts. I'm 63 now. I am writing every day now...the real stuff that was in my heart. First book is complete now. I will now find a publisher. I'm a younger man now, because of you. The next 20 years of challenge and growth excites me so much. I owe you brother.
  • It’s really easy to get caught up in negativity… Especially when you’ve decided to get on the entrepreneurSHIP. The waves 🌊 may sway you in one direction or another but it comes down to the captain and their team to keep it going in the intended direction💕 Listening to this as I currently push through some mental barriers to accomplish some biz tasks. HIGHLY appreciate both Tom and Lisa for their dedication and commitment to helping others as they pursue their goals and dreams. Thanks a ton!!!! Marii
  • This video is great. I took 2 pages of notes that I review daily. In the two weeks since, I've consistently asked myself, "What can I do now to move me toward achieving my goals?" I've struggled less with inaction and anxiety the past two weeks than ever before, focusing on contribution to the present rather than previous lack of achievement or worries about the future. I'm feeling confident in my action and my process. Thank you!
  • @Razor-yp7hq
    Been following you for a little while now and I really appreciate the raw truth in the message. Easy to self reflect and apply when you are on a journey of fulfilment. Your presentation is relatable. I have shared it with my son and wife. Many Blessings to you and your family, and may you find the key to everlasting life. ;)
  • Amazing episode I've got Goosebumps so many times love Tom bilyeu breaks down his ideas no bullshit what is gonna take it's all about building skills that will serve you and the people around you does not matter where you are today all that matters is all you want to become it always seems impossible until someone does it if not now when if not us then who it's all up to us doing the work thank you Tom appreciate it you can do anything you set your mind if it's possible for one it's possible for another👍🏼
  • @richspizzaparty
    I’ve never heard the concept of sincere pursuit and I’ve been studying this stuff for 20 years. My self worth used to be tied to my bank account. This is gold, Tom.
  • @WahlVids
    Perfect timing! I have no choice but to succeed this year and there's no turning back.
  • @waterbeing3617
    Don’t know how to pick just one key note! So epic I love how you always focus on what’s real and scientific fact to emphasize the power of utilizing our brains to change and grow
  • You preaching good & I absolutely love it your frickin brutal honest just tell me the truth & let me feel what I feel & go through my Own emotions, deal with my shit & make my own decisions, I infinitely love it king ❤ . Now let's goooo.