20 (IMPORTANT) THINGS I WISH I KNEW IN MY 20'S

I’VE MISSED Y’ALL ❤ HIT THE LIKE BUTTON AND COMMENT BELOW WHAT YOU NEEDED TO KNOW!

I’m 40. One thing that I wish I knew in my 20s is that who you choose as your partner or spouse is one of the most important decisions that you can make. That person can elevate you or drag you down.

In points:- 1.Slow down and smell the rose 2. Beauty without a kind heart is just decoration 3.Stop trying to prove yourself 4.25 is not a deadline 5.There is a time and season for everything 6. Attention from the opposite sex is nothing 7. Sex is not Love 8.Find your tribe 9. Quality over Quantity(for friends) 10. Be more adventurous 11. University is a big scam 12. Do not take things so personally 13. Its ok to change your mind 14.Dont hold grudges. 15.Learn to let things go 16. Save your coins 17. Opinions are assholes 18. Nobody cares as much as you think they do. 19. Stand up for yourself. 20.Young choices becomes adult problem.

You’ve gotta dance like there’s nobody watching, Love like you’ll never be hurt, Sing like there’s nobody listening, And live like it’s heaven on earth

The part about "building a solid tribe of female friends" really hit the nail on the head for me! I too am in my 30's and I don't really have any close knit female friendships. I yearn for those friendships with every fiber of my being. The older we get, the more challenging it is to establish these wonderful friendships. Boyfriends (sometimes even husbands) come and go; we as women need to stop solely focusing on men and take time to develop strong connections with other ladies. This is truly one of the biggest regrets from my 20's and younger years.

“25 is not old.” Thank you. I’m 31 and recently found the career I actually want after going to school and trying different jobs in my 20s. Since I’m a new entrepreneur, I’m not making much $$$ and that can be discouraging as a 31 year old, looking at other women my age who are financially stable. But what I do have is youth, health, peace, the challenge of learning entrepreneurship, more freedom, impact, etc. Trying to count my blessings because while I’m comparing myself to others, they are comparing themselves to me! I am on my own unique, beautiful journey. There are married people jealous of single people, entrepreneurs jealous of 9-5ers…. Keep your eyes set on YOUR path.

I'm 19 now. I'll be 20 in 4 months and I don't know if I'm ready for my 20s. thank you for sharing this video, you are my big sister I've never had 🥺❤️

I just turned 26 ✨yesterday and I spent it in solitude and with family. No fancy clothes, no clubbing, absolutely nothing and I feel so wholesome and fulfilled in everything. I've learned 🥰so much these past few years about myself, relationships, school, and feeling stuck. Ladies, no matter what please keep going and don't compare yourself because everyone has their own time when it's their time. 💕

Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen

25 is not old 🙋🏽‍♀️ I turned 25 this year and I needed to hear that 🥹

I just turned 20 (this month). And what I've learned (got a bit shocked) so far are : 1. Parents can drag you down indirectly. So always be smart to watch the situation 2. You will start to lose "friends" to go out with like how you did in high school 3. Mental health problems is now a normal thing for you. You just gotta improve and forget about the stress because.. 4. Stress won't go away unless you rely on your parents 100% 5. Being fake and masking is a different thing. Sometimes you just need to match the vibe with other people to get a lot of connections especially at work. 6. Being grateful is a MUST. Don't ever compare yourself with anybody. Or if you have to, must be in a positive, encouraging way. 7. Sometimes saying "No" is the better than sacrificing your other importances 8. More disciplines will be very helpful. Especially in time. 9. Other people sometimes can understand you better than your family. And it's ok. 10. People are competing at work. They can be your friends but wanna be better than you and "win". As I said, be smart to watch every situations. 11. Last but not least, be wise on who you choose to share your probs with

📌Young choices become adult problems 📌It's ok to change your mind 📌 don't take things too personally 📌Stand up for yourself, check them 📌25 is not the mark, you still have the rest of your life to be successful I learnt a lot, Breeny you are my big sis I love you, thanks for the gems♥️🇳🇬

Im only 22 and I feel so much pressure to be great inside and out to the point i feel depressed so i needed to hear several of these points! I also agreed with needing to slow down because I too felt like I would miss people when their gone and regret it. I need to not worry what others think, not rush things, build a tribe, and not think im right about everything, know that it’s ok to change my mind and etc. I saved this video because it resonates with me, I been feeling like my 20s are not good already and I only been in them for 2yrs. 😅 Thanks for another video❤

I'm 55 and I agree 100% with everything you said. The only thing I feel differently about is.. I do NOT regret my University experience. I have never regretted any education I have received whether I paid for it, got it free, or learned it the hard way. Sure, I'd like to have the money it cost me to attend but darn, I would have thrown it away on crap anyway.

I really needed to hear this. I’m 23 and feeling undoubtedly lost. Thank you, Breeny! So good to see you back 💘

Never looked at not getting things at 25 like that. I always felt like people who got to their goals earlier were better, but I never looked at it that way.... you should have something to strive for and grow with. In due time. Thanks for this <3

8. Find your tribe 16. Let things go , this stood out to me so much as I am such an over-thinker , I take things very personal and find it hard to forgive .

31 has never looked better B🧡

Recently turned 21 and I already feel like I didn't do enough to start my 20s right, this video calmed me down and made me excited for them. Thank you for putting out this video Breeny💕

1. Slow Down/ Be present in all life moments. Life is moving. (Time cant be gotten back/ cherish times and moments)-everything you want to accomplish/goals is going to happen but take time to cherish moments in life. 2. Beauty without a kind heart is merely decoration. Work on being beautiful inside, out. Not just physical appearance. being pretty is aesthetic, being beautiful is wholesome. 3. Stop trying to prove yourself. (you have nothing to prove.) Be you, be genuine>> stop trying to prove yourself to family, cousins, friends. it does not matter. They see your value. 4. 25 is not old/ 30 is not old. You don't have to have your life figured out at 25/ 30. your not in control of your timeline. 5. There is a time to be, do, have everything you want to have. 6. Attention from opposite sex means absolutely nothing. You cant do anything with male attention. ( watch at >> 12:02 ) 7. Sex is not love. ( Any man who wants to sleep with you does not respect you, and in fact is not love.) 8. Find your tribe>> (female friends) and find it early. Be intentional about building a solid tribe of friends. 9. Similarly to # 8 Quality friends over quantity of friends. 10. Be more adventurous. Doing things out of the normal. step outside your comfort zone. 11. University is the biggest scam of life>>>> disclaimer>>> Breeny lee's personal opinion/experience. 12. Don't take things personally and don't hold grudges. 13. It's ok to change your mind. Stop trying to have all the right answers. 14. … (She skipped #14) 15.Learn to let things go. >>>"Its not that deep" 16. save save save. Don't spend everything you earn. Save your money. 17. Opinions of others. (watch >>> @ 25:04 18. in her 20(s) >> she learnt >>>nobody cares. Watch @ 26:11 19. Stand up for yourself. 20.young choices become adult problems.