SIGNS THAT YOU MAY BE DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST by RC Blakes

I've dealt with a Narcissist! Once I found out what I was dealing with I ran for my life! They are dangerous to be around! When you have to Google someone's behavior, Its time to go!

I’ve been dealing with a narcissist for two years. At first it was amazing I thought this man was my soul mate I was wrong. Devalued me, Gas Lighted, blame shifted, and a lot of future faking. Now it’s been 19 days for me no contact it’s been one of the hardest things but I have to stay out of this toxic relationship. Ever time I take him back he does something worse then the last time. THEY NEVER CHANGE smh. Please please educate yourself on these types of individuals. Your not crazy I promise their goal is to keep you in a confused state and to break your spirit to have control over you.

Narcissist are spiritually broken with broken wounds

I have to say that every Narcissist I have ever met was broke and seemed like nice decent men. There's no golden rule to follow for how to determine if someone is a Narcissist. The Narcissist I married was financially comfortable. You must use your spiritual discernment for any person you meet in the times we are living in now. Always ask God to show you who a person really is on the inside.

When a narcissist comes in your life it is spiritual warfare it’s on a spiritual level stay prayed up ask god for strength let them go and pray for their deliverance from a far

1. Pay attention if he has a constitution / if he could reciprocate your love. 2. He is fundamentally programmed against relationships (respect for time; how much he learns about you over a period of time; you are seen, heard, and listened to). 3. He gives the energy that you are an option. 4. Watch how they manage their relationships with others. (They have a gift of making you feel bad about yourself) 5. Flattery. 6. Elusive and confusing in conversations. 7. They have extraordinary dreams, but they cannot articulate the plan; 8. Constant recognition. 9. They are envious of people who actually possess the life that they fantasise about.

When people go on with their life, leave them alone. A narcissist is trying to prove a point. Nobody is going back to NO abusive relationship. You didn't appreciate that person when I was there. Dont check for that person once their gone.

Narcissists are very good actors and very good liars. They’re extremely observant and learn to intentionally reflect what their target wants, but it is only a means to get what they want. The target isn’t attracted to narcissistic traits. Narcissist hide their traits well until their targets are entrapped. Their targets never knew such monsters existed. Not all narcissist are grandiose. Covert narcissist come across very humble and helpful. People with true narcissistic personality disorder are not just self centered braggarts, they are predators who want to destroy their targets. There is most certainly a spiritual black hole in their soul…they do not have the same human feelings and traits that normal people do. And there is no helping them. The only answer is to get out!

Amen stop letting these people in your lives!!! Self esteem is everything they can not destroy a confident Christian!

All of what he's saying is si true. I dated a Narcissist for 6 1/2 years and I knew that somethings was wrong with him and the holy spirit was letting me know to leave this man alone but, I turned a blind eye and didn't want to acknowledge it. I saw the red flags at the beginning. And for a while I was questioning myself if everything was my fault. That demon is real.

Embarrassingly I'm married to one. I saw all the flags but didn't understand my own brokenness that led me to him. I'm in the process of divorcing him and healing me. Thank you for this!

I am healing from this demonic spirit I been gaslighted, lovebombed, future faking, inconsistency and I don’t even know I trusted his person but now I’m clear on what is going on thank you Pray for me cuz I feel so stupid and dumb for letting someone treat me in such a way

His own mother told me not to settle for him. That's when I knew I wasn't crazy.

Thank you for this message I am in the process of divorcing a narcissist and to be around him is mentally,physically,spiritually,emotionally and financially draining.

Therapist here!!!👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽 I'm so grateful for all of your teachings on the narcissist. I've listened to nearly all of them. Providing therapy to victims of narcissism is extremely difficult because of the psychological entanglement. It's even harder if the victim has a history of trauma. The church really needs education on narcissism because they have encouraged people to stay in these types of dangerous (mental and sometimes physical) relationships. Thanks, Pastor Blake and continue teaching. 🙌🏽

Yes!! My husband would always give a compliment with an insult.

I've experienced one. It was the worst thing ive had to endure. It changes you.

I’ve noticed that most narcissistic people who have addictive behavior

The fact that you call this person out on his/her behavior with proof they still don't admit to it...

MY PRAYER IS THAT AS WOMEN WE WOULD HEAR AND LEARN AND DON'T ALLOW OURSELVES TO REPEAT THESE UGLY PAINFUL SITUATIONSHIP AGAIN