10 Female Autistic Traits | AUTISM IN GIRLS

At 70 yrs old, I was the “weird old lady who lives at the end of the road” as neighbours would describe me. Not one doctor knew what I was going through on a daily basis and I was labeled antisocial. Nowadays, even though doctors know better about the disorder, any doctor I go to refuse this diagnosis for me due to my age, saying it’s never been documented in my medical file therefore it’s not what I have. They choose to stick with what was previously diagnosed…”unsociable and irate”. Very disheartening to me. But, fortunately, my daughter and granddaughter are diagnosed properly on the spectrum.

"I need alone time like I need air" I've never related to something more!

My wife has Asperger’s. As challenging as it has been she brings so much positivity to our marriage. She is SUPER organised, admirably truthful, amazingly proactive and I trust her with my life. ❤

I cried when you mentioned the meltdowns. I remember getting them pretty frequently when I was in high school (and looking back now I see them when I was even younger), but my mother told me "the real world doesn't deal with this kind of bullshit". Ever since then, I've tried incredibly hard to never show the world or my family my "bullshit". I've been denying a potential autism diagnosis because every time I bring it up, my parents deny it, since my ADHD is far more prevalent. I think it's time I go to the psychiatrist. Thank you <3

You are NOT embarrassing anyone dear. You are lovely. Your boyfriend is not a poor boyfriend. Your family is not a poor family. They are lucky to have a wonderful young lady in their lives.

"I need my alone time, like I need air" thank you for sharing the spectrum

As the father of an autistic little girl, I applaud your courage to make this video and opening up about your struggles. My daughter is 4 and she's my world. It's hard to communicate with her, but thankfully someone like you who is older can express so clearly how you feel and how you think because it helps me understand her a lot more. Thank you so much and you are a great young lady!

I was dx with ADHD, PTSD, anxiety and depression at 40. Found out last year I had ASD when I was 43. I am multitalented, forgetful, blunt, mush mouth, logical, and hyper-vigilant. My ASD needs routine, but my ADHD makes it hard to maintain them.

You have described my daughter. She was recently diagnosed ASD. Several of our family members are denying the diagnosis, basically because she isn't their idea of Autistic. We are struggling because when she speaks or acts in the ways comfortable for her, they want to fit her in the neurotypical mold and will scold or discipline her for being rude or not paying enough attention. I just want to teach her to be herself and see how awesome she really is

Ten Traits Covered in this Video- 1) Heightened Senses 2) Mental Illnesses 3) Inflexibility (Routine) 4) Difficulty/Dislike Socialising 5) Selective Mutism 6) Black/White Thinking 7) Gut Issues 8) Good Long Term Memory 9) Meltdowns 10) Empathy P.S.- It is not necessary to have all these traits.

You described most of the things about me. I am almost 60 years old and have been called: antisocial, over sensitive, extremely picky about my food, my clothes (the way they feel on my skin), my sense of smell, having items be in there spot, items lining up(lines on a rug lining up with the floor lines)- I took it all personally like no one liked me or I annoyed most people. I stay away from social situations because they exhaust me.I have very few friends and o am fine with that. I have finally realized I have ASD and have been this way since I was very young. I have learned to cope with most things about myself and my ‘turned up ‘senses, but the biggest thing for me was accepting me as this is who I am . I am different and unique. Self acceptance is the biggest issue anyone has with this or any other type of disorder you cannot change. Love yourself no matter what, and learn to be ok with your ‘unique gifts’. ❤️

I'm a late diagnosed autistic female and whole my life I've had a feeling that people in general dislike me (at first I've thought that's because I'm overweight, then because I'm a bad person, then because of my disorder). And only after your video I've understood that I don't see joy on people faces not because they are upset, but because of my "mimic blindness". It's so relieving to finally at the age of 33 know that the world doesn't actually hate me. Thank you!

When I was going through my diagnosis, my psychologist said, "It is time to get busy being you" I was tired of masking at that point.

Self diagnosed from the wealth of information on Youtube, my 'Covid lockdown' was filled with research into my lifelong differences to 'normal' people. Aged 72 now, it's been really interesting consciously monitoring my speech/thoughts and responses when talking to people. And, how refreshing to hear how Olivia describes her own journey. These videos will help thousands of people. Well done Olivia 🙂

When I was a baby, I was diagnosed with ASD and never talked until I was in the 1st grade. I completely relate to the sensory issues—especially noise. I can't STAND loud noises. And my alone time is so wildly accurate! I stay in my room for hours a day! I also have mutism as well. I also hate socializing, but I have to. And I also get angry for little things. I’m still ashamed of who I am, but not as much anymore. I'm bullied because of my autism, and I’m in middle school, so I can't get mad over things when people are around because they will make fun of me. Thank you.

😊 Yep, that's me, 81 years old. Although I prefer to call it a "difference" rather than disorder. Learning to navigate through life with skills and awareness, and mostly acceptance that this is what I have to function with is healthy. Thank you so much for speaking out to bring understanding and awareness of these unique qualities, it is so helpful to everyone. EMBRACING WHAT IS WITH LOVE. 😊💜 We can be our own Best Friend.

Me: ok but I'm probably not neurodivergent, I'm just overthinking Also me: * relates to every single autism in girls video *

This describes me to a tee. At 52 I am just now figuring out what has been ‘wrong with me’ my whole life and it is great to know that we have a community ❤️

Neurodivergent here, 68 years old. I experience many of the things you’ve mentioned with the exception of aversion to change and empathy. I first realized I was dyslexic when I attended college and the blackboards literally flipped in front of my eyes. The description of selective mutism was very interesting, I’ve also experienced this. Thank you for posting!

I am 81 year old male in UK and didn't even realize I was ASD until in my 70's (Yes, what a relief). Wondered if females were different but no, you almost described me there. Thank you for being brave and sharing your thoughts. You have more courage than me. My very best wishes to you throughout your future.