The Hardest Person in the World To Break up With

The hardest person to break up with is the one you created in your mind.

“when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags” - Wanda, Bojack Horseman.

The best advice I ever got was, “breaking up with him doesn’t mean you don’t love him. It just means you love yourself more”.

One thing I learned from my past relationship is that sometimes love isn't enough

Let's not forget these "partners" may sometimes be us. It's always important to self-reflect

The hardest person to break up with is that person you've been thinking about from the moment you clicked on this video.

Let's not forget also the 3rd type of response - the hurt - the person who may accept the criticism at first but then quickly begins to talk about how awful the criticism has made them feel. They make you (deliberately or more often not deliberately) feel like it was selfish or wrong to even have the concern let alone voice it

let's not forget, loving YOURSELF means RESPECTING yourself, and how many people in the world will ask you to disrespect yourself for their own sake

The hardest person to break up with is an emotional manipulator, who plays the victim and makes you also addicted to them.

Respect yourself enough, to walk away from someone who doesn't see your worth.

Man, this hit hard. As someone who ended a relationship 6 months ago because she lied to me several times over 2 years together, this video helps. I constantly battle with the feeling she was the best I can do. The most physically attractive, the one woman I shared so many common interests with. I also recognise the fact that I wasnt the best boyfriend at times either. So I never knew if I was being too sensitive or if I had good cause to be upset. But I also recognise that she would pretty much always make me feel like the bad guy, or she would say sorry and that she would never repeat a behaviour, but then she would do it again a while later, exactly like this video says. My ex also threw herself a massive pity party when we broke up so now all mutual friends think I'm a dick, when I was just looking out for myself. It's like they don't even realise how damn hard it was for me to walk away. My ex doesn't seem to realise that either. I wish she didn't lie to me. Maybe things could have been different. It's so frustrating. I compare new dates to her but nobody gives me the same feeling, never the same chemistry. Like a moth to the flame, I know she's bad for me, yet I can't help be attracted to her. I have decided to move on though. I know, eventually, I'll be glad I walked out of that relationship. When I have a partner that doesn't lie to me, that respects me, and that I have no doubts about. Better to be alone then be with her again.

Always remember...Being understood is a form of intimacy. When someone refuses to be understanding, they are either selfish, inconsiderate, or prideful or all the above. None of these traits will lead to a long lasting healthy relationship. When you have a controversial discussion, you can gauge their willingness to be understanding💕 God bless in Jesus name!🙏🏽🙌🏽

You'll never heal by going back to what broke you

One thing I learned from relationships is that you never know if they truly love you till life starts to test the relationship. Edit: Spelling a whole year later

I no longer base the value of a relationship on how I feel about them but how they make me feel. I can love someone and hate how they make me feel. I'm not leaving out of lack of love, but to feel better again.

Watched this video while married for over 3 years and realized I had to get out for several reasons. Now divorced for 3 months and I'm so proud of my courage to get free. Yes, it's hard but it's definitely peaceful and that's what I missed most. I pray anyone feeling trapped finds the willpower to do the same.

Without ever raising a hand, let alone a finger, one human can badly damage another! So true.

Note to self: Work on yourself. Avoid hurting this girl you really love.

In short, a gaslighter is hard to break up with. This person uses your best traits (your ability to love and trust) against you and make you feel bad for having these traits.

I was in a relationship like this for 7 years. It's only been 5 months since it ended, so I am still affected by it. He was the denial one. The only time he blamed stuff on himself was when I left. I try to surround myself with good friends, positivity, doing things I love, and crying when I am sad. I'm taking it day by day.