He Disappeared? You May Accidentally Be Making These 2 Mistakes (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

He disappeared? He chose to do so. He could have stayed and communicated but no, he chose to disappear without any explanation. He didn't care how you would feel. Let him disappear then.

Dating is a series of tests I cant pass.

The trend I have been seeing is many men wanting what I call "companionship on demand" on their terms. They don't want labels, any expectations, or the responsibilities of a relationship. This allows them to freely see many women simultaneously and call on someone every couple weeks and have several girls in rotation. They are getting their companionship and sexual needs met without having any responsibility of commitment.Once you ask for clarity "where is this going", you are either ghosted or they say something like "can't we just enjoy each other's company" It really is epidemic right now

You can be the warmest and kindest person in the world but if someone's intention is to get something sexual from you, they will still bail on you.. And that has nothing to do with you or your attitude.. It's soo important to be aware of that before you start blaming yourself. We can't influence their intentions or reactions but what we do have power over is our own self-esteem, so keep that in mind and don't let anything destroy it ❤️

I feel attacked by YouTube for recommending this. Lmao

So the key is confidence, optimist and brave. I am not sure I can be a slytherin, hufflepuff and a gryffindor all at once. :p

Wow, that's awesome advice! I wholeheartedly believe that a lot of women fall victim to mistake No.1. Most of the women that read my blog, try to oversexualize themselves when dating because they fear they are not 'interesting' enough. It breaks my heart, whenever they feel like they did everything they could and then the man disappears. THANKS FOR SHARING!

Why does Matthew appear always in my time of need?

5 Reasons Why Friends Disappeared: 1. I haven't talked to them in a while. 2. I keep telling myself that they're busy and don't have time for me. 3. I read too much into subtext. 4. I have forgotten their name. 5. Coronavirus

I definitely agree that we need to make adjustments to our own behavior when meeting new people so that we can make ourselves more approachable and exhibit the right attitude that is going to help us meet the right person. But as Matthew already once said before: “it’s difficult to screw up the right thing” which means that if somebody disappears on us, we should never fall into a trap of thinking that “if only I could go back and express more of this and less of that” then that would’ve made them stay. The answer is no, it wouldn’t. When someone is drawn to you in a way they’re not drawn to others, it will be difficult to turn them off by something that isn’t a serious dealbreaker. You can be your absolute best and it’s still not going to be enough, the wrong one will still run off. You can make a few mistakes, but the right one will still stick around.

Warmth=confidence, optimism , and bravery. Thank you Matthew Hussey! Your theatrics make me giggle. The Spanish ending music was perfect!

Idk why am I watching this right now when I'm getting married in 2 weeks. But I used to watch your videos for a while and they have helped me so much after my previous really bad relationship. Your advice about leaving who doesn't meet your standards has been one of my most helpful advices ever. ThanQ so much Matthew. I'm happy, my fiancé is happy, we are mad about each other without anyone holding back. That too, don't hold back people even if it might hurt.

I realized I am amazing, just was seeing a shitty person. I’m definitely warm.

I do exactly all of the “warmth” things. But I’m still single 😂

You know, being able to let someone shine and build their own status in the situation without it threatening yours, ultimately shows how confident and authentic you are in your own skin! Very Attractive to see in a man and a woman ;) Thanks Matthew, you inspire me to create content every day!

10/10 video. Now bring back the monkey for a demonstration

Guy I was seeing seemed more into me than I was him. First time I stopped talking to him he said he felt a connection with me so I gave him a real chance smh month later suppose to go on date didn’t hear from him the next day and now 2 days after I give up I’m done. Dating now is too difficult for no reason and I don’t have the patience

Sorry, relationships happen when They happen. That's part of the beauty. You can't overanalyse, stay yourself, the natural you.

Where was this video a month ago... glad it’s here now 😂 thank you Matt

I'm in a relationship but honestly a lot of what you're teaching is how to communicate with people better and be a better person. It also gives me tips on how to make my relationship better in some areas! Thabk you!