Marrying an Italian, language barriers & living with my parents w/ Carlo & Sarah | Ep. 59

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@CarloandSarah join us to discuss their unique marriage between an American and an Italian. They share the language barriers they've encountered in their relationship and the humorous awkwardness of living with their parents after getting married. Join us for a candid and entertaining conversation!

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Chapters:
00:00 - Episode 59
10:02 - Accidentally friend-zoning my Italian boyfriends
12:31 - Women in Italy don’t take their husband’s last name
19:18 - The biggest cultural difference between Italy & the US
23:03 - Real Italians don’t move their wrist
34:46 - Italians put hot dogs and fries on pizza
40:09 - Google translating my husband in an argument
43:59 - I didn’t wait until marriage
53:12 - Why marriage is so hard
1:08:06 - Why so many creators are quitting
1:11:05 - Losing my hair from birth control
1:19:16 - Raising kids to be bilingual
1:26:39 - My dad heard us making love

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All Comments (21)
  • Never expected Carlo and Sarah to be on this pod cast. I absolutely love them. So funny and pure love. Genuine
  • @JulieIreland
    Matt playing with Abby's hair... 🫶🏼 So sweet! On another note, Carlos and Sarah make me giggle so much! Such a match made in Heaven!
  • @Emcatastrophe
    Carlo seems so naturally soft-spoken, I never would’ve guessed he’s secretly a LOUD talker!
  • @elenaascia8879
    I'm italian and I've gotta say that i love how Carlo maintained certain italian words like ma. It just comes naturally to him. Also, his English improved a LOT. Fiera di te 💪🏻
  • Learning the language of the person you love is such a loving thing , i remember learning Romanian for my ex and he learning english for me , and then when i would share smart words with him id say this is a special word so he would really take it in , because one thing i could not stand is that ny partner was very smart and people would treat him stupid or less than human and more of a pet because his language is very simplified so translation can be very simple so once his special words were learned he finally was given the respect he deserved , im so happy he now gets to travel the world using his english that he learned through love , love is great even when a relationship ends we always remember great things we learn from who we have loved , im so glad i met him in my life , and hope hes happy where he is now ❤
  • Carlo saying "ceh" all the time makes me smile thinking it must be weird hearing it often while he is speaking for non-Italian speakers
  • Hear me out. It is a HUGE compliment that his family owns a beach thing, and of all the ladies that came, he was memorized by her. Wow, wow. Awesome story!
  • @JosephMartin7
    Actually my favorite episode so far. Matt & Abby have gotten better as interviewers, and Carlo and Sarah seem so grounded and genuine 😊
  • @mmpm93
    It is so heartwarming to see how much Carlo's English has improved ❤ He is also really brave to have such a long conversation with all native speakers
  • I LOVE MATT ASKING QUESTIONS! He gets down and asks what we want to hear! I love it, he's great with the podcast!
  • @pe9147
    I love seeing Carlo's personality here. And not just being made fun of. So refreshing to finally see him shine. Not just pranks of his english
  • @erinrenee980
    I always thought Sarah's hair was all real! I'm so sad to hear about her hair loss. Hair for anyone is a big part of their identity, and to lose control of what happens to your hair is honestly devastating. Really loved this interview. Sarah and Carlo are great!
  • Gosh. Breaking up with the person you really like, but don't feel is the right person for you... that is sooo hard. Takes a lot of courage. Glad you did!
  • @honeybee2658
    So cute how Matt plays with Abby’s hair through the entire episode ❤️🥰
  • Sarah & Carlo are a match made in heaven! What a love story! They are a great couple! 😊❤
  • @stephanieann622
    I’m loving this collaboration. Carlo is so funny, he’s the textbook Italian man. My family is from Calabria, Italy. I grew up very close to my nana and she was 100% Italian and let me tell you…Proud Of It! I miss her and everything about her. This is so endearing and it’s filling my heart with joy. Thank you all so much 🇮🇹❤️
  • Carlo to the core is such a good guy!!! He is so sweet to Sarah how he didn’t want her to move after such an expensive degree 😭 Despite english not being his first language, he still relays his empathy so well! Esp the train ticket story 🥹🥹🥹