A CANDID CONVERSATION WITH STEPHAN SPEAKS: WHY IS HE SINGLE?

TIME STAMPS DON'T FORGET TO HIT THE LIKE BUTTON* 0:00 INTRO 08:30 WHAT HAPPENED TO STEPHAN'S 1ST MARRIAGE 10:51 WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE? 17:48 HAVE YOU EVER DATED A SUBSCRIBER? 29:07 THERE ARE BAD MEN ANDDD BAD WOMEN 31:25 DOES STEPHAN PANDER TO WOMEN? 36:25 WE ARE FRUSTRATED BECAUSE MEN AREN'T DOING THE WORK 46:26 WHAT MANY WOMEN DON'T WANT TO HEAR 55:50 WHY WOMEN LET THEMSELVES GO WHEN THEY GET A MAN 1:03:24 FIND A PERSON THAT ALIGNS WITH YOUR VISION OF LIFE 1:09:34 THE INTERNET RUINS RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS 1:12:25 DATINGS APP - HOW TO WIN 1:21:27 YOU CAN'T GIVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE YOU'RE SINGLE STEPHAN 1:40:50 THE TRUTH ABOUT EQUALITY AND SUBMISSION 1:52:11 MESSAGE TO THE SCEPTICS 1:57:02 HOW TO MOVE ON FROM A MAN WHO DOESN'T LOVE YOU 2:04:37 DOES STEPHAN GET LONELY? 2:11:27 OUTRO

I know it’s coming from a nice thought but we need to stop blurring the lines of professionalism and romanticism among the opposite sex. Just because Breeny and Stephan are single and held a decent conversation doesn’t mean they’re meant to be. It can just mean they have good chemistry as fellow YouTubers and nothing else. We need to normalize men and women working together without making it into a ‘thing’. It’s weird. (This is based on comments made earlier)

I had some guys criticize my nails & outfits 🙄 the first thing they say is how much that cost? Like sir just say it’s nice and move on I don’t need to know how broke you are … how are they intimidated by something I PAID FOR 😅 they want to make us feel bad for something they can’t afford. it’s a pitiful way to get us to lower our standards of self care

I CLICKED IMMEDIATELY the collaboration I didn’t know I needed

I let myself go in my relationship bc I was stressed in that relationship — literally it messed up my hormones 💀 Ladies, be careful. Don’t let that man stress you THAT bad.

Stephan is saying nothing but a word. Being spiritually unyoked to someone is a big deal. That imbalance can mess someone’s life up. I appreciate that he is owning and embracing his singleness. Please instruct your brothers. They messed up.

I agree with the marriage analogy, you don't have to be married to give good advice. Similarly, you'll generally get much better advice on raising children from teachers and nannies, than actual parents.

Ladies, the book he’s talking about at 50:17 is called, “why men marry some women and not others”. I read it as a teenager and used it to get married. It’s brilliant, it naturally embodies the masculine (author) and the feminine (women interviewed). Update: Wow thank for all the likes. Still happily married after 9 years, two kids and everything life throws at you. Highly recommend the book to identify men not aligned to the life you want.

When he started in on God he hit me right in the chest. If theres anything that God has been letting me see is that you have to get out of your own doing and ask God where youre supposed to be. Ive ended up in some trenches trying to do things in my own power

I loved when he said “you can be an amazing woman but may not be the one for him…” In different words I had to drill this into my friends head because she self-deprecates when a couple of dates doesn’t materialize into a relationship.

Breeny’s videos played a major role in my self healing. Stephan relationship advice helped me dodge many bullets. This collab is EVERYTHING ☺️ and breeny is asking all the right questions 😉

You should definitely talk with RC Blake’s Jr or Tony Gaskins. Both of them are great!

I agree with Stephan,you can't just jump into a relationship just because you're single,you have to meet someone and connect naturally with that person in a way that you've never connected with anyone else and you'll realise it's the right time

Love the conversation. It's important to have discernment. I do think it's hard for black women specifically to walk in feminine energy, I do like dressing well etc. but I notice that we often have to come with different energy to be respected in the workplace, to not be approached inappropriately etc. So it's hard to distinguish where we can freely be feminine. Cause we're often fighting to be respected.

"You can get involved with someone who is spiritually completely out of whack". 10 minutes in and he hit the nail right on the head with my current situation. I'm in love with someone who is spiritually out of whackl, but I fell in love with who he is. I consider him my best friend because that's how we are; we have a deep connection beyond physical attraction. We're both the first people either of us have ever been in love with so the bond is strong. But he's not right for me and I have to let him go. It's really painful but I need to heed to God's voice because he warned me in a dream of the consequence of continuing this with him.

Don't cheat yourself! I watched the entire conversation and there was so much information given.

Stephan has such a genuine and positive energy about him. Can never get enough of his material. Part of me was hoping these two gorgeous, kind, intelligent, godly people would become a YT power couple after this interview 😏

This conversation/collaboration is EVERYTHING!

Breeny really knows how to make these interviews interesting. She knows all the right questions to ask 🙌🏼

Oh my goodness, I have been watching you both separately for yearzzz!!!! This was incredible to see you two together! I loved it!!