I Was Financially Abused For Years In Marriage And I Thought It Was Normal

I understand your message, Owami, but I want to share my own experience. I used to earn more than my husband, but I didn't want to tell him because I was worried about how he would react. However, when I finally told him, he was very supportive and said that we were a team. Two years later, he started earning three times more than me, but he remained humble and supportive. In my opinion, it's important to caution people against getting involved with someone who can't handle their finances. It's not about how much they earn, but rather how they manage their money. For example, my husband was debt-free and very good with his finances when we met. Therefore, my advice is to date or marry someone who is financially disciplined, has a clear vision and is working towards it, and is also mature and secure in themselves. It's not about the amount they earn, but rather how they handle their money and their life goals.

And after he pays with my money, I would say "thank you baby". 😂😂😂 As women our level of delulu is unmatched 😂😂

Singing " I have been through hell and back" on your behalf ninja 😂

If we are being honest, most black South African women have experienced this level of financial abuse. My ex did the same to me. Just listening to Owamie’s story is so triggering. When he got an opportunity to work abroad, I literally did everything that I could to help him secure that job because I refused to have a stalker on my hands. Now I’m free and almost 5 years sober. Drunk in love for who?

Owamie, you were a good wife. Never beat yourself up for it!

Iyho! Jonga I experienced financial abuse in my past relationship, i was so skinny guys, i looked sick :( because i literally leaved to make sure that man was ok. If ufuna imali, he would even tell me how much and i JUST COULD NOT SAY NO. He grew wings ke sana if you know what I mean and whatever job he got - it was beneath him. He would go and work, the following week he has resigned because that job is not for him hehehehehe and I would continue to support him. But the day he decided to leave me, i felt like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Jonga i was so excited that the relationship has ended yhu yhu after that ndingemhle, i gained weight and started glowing. Sana never again!!!!!!!!!

I wish they would teach this to women in church. Praying for marriage does not change a financial abuser. Whey would they change if it's so nice.

I love when you post personal story times, I never skip them ❤

I was there once. Never again. A man must make money, period. Most of them have nothing other than money to offer anyway

Wena Owami u are a real one let me tell this is most women's story but not all are bold enough to share

Someone should host Owamie on to Hell and Back please😊

🤣🤣😪😪Been there... done that with a boyfriend🤧....dumped him....and now I have a permanent, ridiculous narcissistic stalker.😵‍💫

I Pray all Young Girls find this video.. 🕯 I will share this video all over and make sure that it reaches the masses.. 🙏🏾 This notion of being a Mbokodo is NOT on. This is a tough lesson we all hsve to learn as women and some learn it early, others learn late. Either way, Thank You for sharing.. 🙏🏾

Ninja your divorce was a blessing in disguise to you 🤝🤩

currently in the same situation, I feel financially abused and I also console my self ka gore'' he is a good guy with good heart'' i feel exhausted!

I've been single for 13 years. I am a gentle soul and man take advantage of it.

Owami is the big sis we never had hle. The details on how we become popeye in love and what to look out for👌👌👌👌priceless

"the validation you have to give a broke man" 🙌

Queen Ninja you bought him a playstation🤣🤣😂 only love can hurt like this😂

The Blogger they blog about❤🙌