PSA: we are no longer dating emotionally unavailable men

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Published 2022-10-23

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  • @BreenyLee
    PLEASE BEWARE OF SCAMMERS REPLYING TO COMMENTS ABOUT A GIVEAWAY. UNLESS YOU SEE THIS PROFILE POST ANYTHING ITS A SCAM! ALSO I DONT HAVE TELEGRAM!!
  • @JeannieHart
    Married 9 years. What I know for certain…men who want to be there, will be there. You will never have to question your value, or your relationship. Something I learned: Until we heal ourselves from whatever attracted us to that wrong person, those traits will keep showing up with a different face.
  • Dating An Emotionally Unavailable Man Can Be Exhausting 😩 This Type of Man Will Drain You & Eventually Break You.
  • You are looking great. I am so proud of you. As someone who was married for 22years, its so obvious when a guy is emotionally unavailable. But sometimes we ladies refuse to acknowledge the red flag. We have to value ourselves enough not to let unavailable men keep you on a string. Cut that string and keep it moving. Well-done Breeny.
  • @Comme_Elle
    It's the worst thing when you really like someone who is emotionally unavailable, but the only thing you can do is walk away.
  • @lmusima3275
    These broken men really should be going for counselling to get to the route of the problem instead of dating. By dating they only create more problems
  • I’ve literally dated emotionally unavailable men for the past two years 😯😯😯😯 that’s why I’m taking a year off from dating, so I can wholeheartedly focus on developing a healthy, balanced relationship with myself, I can learn how to identify trauma bonding, manipulation, or any other negative, toxic, relationship dynamic without sacrificing my soul and inner peace.
  • Imagine if us women were emotionally unavailable and as savage as all these hurt men are. Or if we had our guard up the way they do, We would probably have all guys chasing us and all over us. The law of attraction is a real thing. A man will have one bad relationship experience and never love again where's a woman can be hurt so many times and still reset and try again. That pisses me off.
  • Most people aren’t emotionally unavailable they just don’t like you. Men move for the women they realky want
  • @Vr4z1el
    Dated an emotionally unavailable narc for 5 months and I will never do that again. It took me 2+ years to get over it because I lost myself completely trying to earn his affection and desire. Which never happened.
  • @zxulou
    An emotionally unavailable man is a man that does not want you and does not see you as his wife period.He is only there for sex. If you are wondering if he really likes or loves you then he does not. When a man wants you, you will know and he will put all effort into pursuing you.
  • Exactly! Stop forcing Men to be in a Relationship. If he says he doesn't want a Relationship. Move on!! Looking GREAT Breeny!
  • I feel like most people are emotionally unavailable in this modern world, we have become very selfish and self centred as a society. Not saying there aren't well balanced people out there but it takes a little more patience and perseverance to find them 🙉
  • I was attracted to this kind of man because that’s how my father was. I’ve been healing from my trauma caused by my dad, and learning to fall in love with GOD, and myself.
  • @yzma6142
    sometime we confused emotional unavailability with a man just not liking you or wanting you enough. trust some men will be emotionally available when he meets the women he truly wants...
  • Trying to help a broken man, you might get cut on the broken pieces. He must heal before entering a new relationship. Thanks for this wisdom Breeny well said ‼️🎯‼️💯‼️
  • @mschris6765
    Ended my engagement one week ago because of these same reasons. I’m now grieving the plans I had for our future. I know the pain of staying is worse then what I’m feeling right now😢. Taking things one day at a time.
  • You look so different sister❤ At this point, I’m not even thinking of entertaining any man anymore. Now they have to go through God to get to me. I’m at a point where I am entertaining God, myself and my career.
  • @flyandshy00
    I cut contact with a person because he wouldn't want to meet in 4 weeks after our first date, only good morning texts and "we should travel together". On weekends he would text at night how tired he is and goodnight. That's what unavailable is, and that guy isn't really into you, just keeps you as the last option.
  • @TanyaChisholm
    Girl preach! Just got out of a marriage like this. As soon as I told him I wasn’t having sex until it’s an overflow of emotional connection things got crystal clear. Constant disappointment and taking advantage of your empathy…if it weren’t for information like this we’d stay confused for way longer. Thank you!