Never EVER "Submit" To A Man (LIKE THIS)

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I never have a problem with 'submission'. What I will not 'submit' to is a fool, narcissist, brokenness and foolishness. The biblical submission is to a man who is ready to lead and would NEVER abuse his position...and you are absolutely right about not submitting to a 'boyfriend'. No submission there for me.

He’s not her husband let’s start and end there.

In the podcast she mentions she doesn't express her needs to her partner. She said she cries in the shower, rather than expressing it to him. She was surprised to hear the Shan does express her needs and desires to her hubsand. The concept of an egalitarian relationship shocked her. She gives so much emotionally but doesn't receive any emotional support in return. That alone shows how one-sided the relationship is. She also stated she does "everything" for him, meaning he does nothing. It's self-sacrificing, prioritizing him at her own expense. It's co-dependent, trauma response behavior. That isn't truly love or pure giving/care. She's been convinced that her only value in a relationship is to be used and to serve. Unhealthy dynamic and mindset.

As a man, I only had to get to 5:56 to know i had heard enough. If a man needs that sort of looking after, he needs a mother not a wife because he is a child. If a normal man ever had a woman treat him like that, he'd think she's overly intense and would lose respect for her as a seperate person. It's a terrible way to be and if i saw those behaviors in my sister or friend I'd be worried about the type of man that would seek her out, it only invites abusive behavior.

The word “submit” has been taken out of context, it doesn’t mean a woman should enslave yourself and allow someone to make decisions on their behalf, without consulting her. It means that she must honor and commit to the relationship. A marriage does not give him nor her the power to control their partner. The Bible also says a ‘man should leave his family and cleave to his wife,’ it doesn’t mean that he severe ties with his family, it means, his wife takes precedent over his family. Your Husband is not your Father…no one should control or have authority over you. Women, please do not do wifey things to a significant other, honor and protect your heart. Marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship.

I haven’t finished watching but from what I saw the lady has mistaken submission with subservience. I do not believe that you should baby a man or play the role as his mother. The lady said she “studies” her man but stuttered and couldn’t respond when she was asked if her partner studied her😬 you cannot love a man into reciprocity. On top of that, her partner has 7 kids that are not hers and she is not married to him. Why play a wife role for a man who is not your husband?

"My love heals him" what kind of witchcraft.

This is why I love the first "Coming to America" because the perfect woman that was willing to do everything for him....caused him to travel the world to find a woman he had to work for. Don't be the gorgeous woman hopping on one foot in a beautiful dress ladies, ever. God bless you Breeney as always for such wonderful and equally wise content. ❤

The part about sex is so real, I was actually thinking about this the other day, who told us that these things are normal. We’ve adopted other people’s perversions as sexual exploration.

I loved this! When me and my boyfriend moved in together a year ago I was doing his laundry, cleaning up after him, buying him new socks and Tees and he flat out told me to stop. Now this is my first relationship where I feel like I’m not drained because he doesn’t allow me to do more for him than he does for me.

As someone who’s been in a relationship for almost 18 yrs, married for 15, I don’t relate to her idea of a submissive wife sheesh! It’s all about cooperation, reciprocity, having boundaries and respecting an honouring not only each other, but ourselves as individuals.

Wooooo lawd! Been there done that. Never again. A man will not like a woman more if she does all this. He either values her or he doesn’t. And yes submitting one to another is for marriage. She didn’t mention one thing that he does…As women our identity should be in God not a man. Prayers.

Couldn't agree more about the correlation between sexual kinks and childhood trauma. I think it was Esther Perel who said, 'Tell me how you were loved when growing up and I'll tell you how you love and make love..' something along those lines. If we look around we'll see that most teenage pregnancies, sex workers, and victims of domestic abuse come from turbulent households. And this whole agenda that's being pushed these days telling a woman she doesn't need a man to raise a child isn't helping the situation. Not seen my dad for the last 20 years and I can clearly see how that has impacted the choices I make in life and love. Lots to unlearn.

Stop doing wife duties for a man that’s not your husband PERIOD!!!!

I actually watched the whole podcast because I didn’t want to be speaking out of turn. That being said, I felt deeply for this woman because what she described was neither artful nor submissive, but rather a trauma response. First and foremost submission, the biblical principle is so dreadfully misunderstood and misrepresented. The Bible specifically speaks to wives submitting to their own husbands as that husband submits to God. In essence the husband’s submission is to God and the wive’s submission to the husband is also in service to God. The worship and submission is all to God as the divine creator. What she has described is almost idolatry in that she seeks to cater to/ worship a man. We know from experience that Cam Newton, the man who she is rumored to be dating, is not her husband (so by its very definition what she’s describing cannot be considered submission). Even if we disregard marital status, we’ve also seen through his own actions/ admissions that he is not a man worth even submitting to based off the ideologies he espouses. Jasmine continued to state that she was doing these things that she didn’t necessarily enjoy but believed to be submission because she felt safe to do those things, but as she continued to talk, you could hear that she is anything but safe in this relationship. Well there is so much to unpack in that interview but I don’t think Jasmine should be focusing on submission to a man at this point but rather alignment with and healing through Jesus Christ. I pray she gets what she needs.

From the intro, you’re absolute correct. I was told a woman who does nothing gets everything! And I declare its true

"You are not being submissive, you are just obeying " THIS! Some guy on fb said his wife better do what he says, and if she opposes, he's not speaking to her until she gives in. Like sir, you are INSANE!! That's not submission. You want control and that's it. You want a "yesman". A servant

"I make it easy for a man to be with me cause I don't do much."

when she said my love can heal, I felt so sad for her. If the mother who birthed the child cannot change him, you are delusional to even think to stand a chance. She needs several therapy sessions not babysitting an adult baby. I said on a different page that she is seeking for approval.