You Don't Find Happiness, You Create It | Katarina Blom | TEDxGöteborg

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Published 2018-05-07
Why is it so hard to find that life of meaning, and connection, and happiness we long for? Why can't we just live in our "happy place" all the time?
According to psychologist Katarina Blom, the brain is not always on your side when it comes to well-being. Survival, absolutely. The rest, not so much. But there is hope!
In this personal and inspiring talk, Katarina Blom lets you in on a few secrets of the mind - and how you can cultivate happiness by befriending your brain. Katarina Blom is a psychologist, a co-founder of a gym for the mind, the first author to publish a Swedish book on positive psychology, and she is the creator of one of the biggest digital platforms on psychology in Sweden. Also, she is an Acroyoga instructor. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

All Comments (21)
  • TED Talks is a great place for people learning English , for listening skill. Thanks
  • @alegna444
    "your brain is concerned that you survive throughout this day, it's less concerned that you're a happy survivor".
  • Had me in tears towards the end. For whoever needs to hear this, just hang in there, this too shall pass
  • @54tutu8
    2:20 it's not just about positive thinking 4:20 we have a better chance at controlling our actions 6:44 diary study: negative effect of a setback was more than twice as strong as the positive effect of a success 8:00 negativity bias 9:20 happiness is a skill that we all can work on 10:58 exercise: [send] appreciative gratitude text to someone that you care for 12:24 harvard study: happiness doesn't come from wealth, fame or working hard [but] relationships
  • I'm a Psychologist, too. And, of all the talks on happiness I've listened to, this is probably the best one yet. At least for my high school students.
  • I learn to improve my English while watching ted talk. And. After one year, im able to speak fluently in english,i guess if i retake my muet exam, i could possibly get band 4. That's what i called systematic 😎
  • It is the people in these Ted Talks videos that have got me through the past 5 years. I do not have anyone in my life to sit and share who i am with, but i know if i was to talk to these people they would understand. That is good enough for me . xx
  • @caroltian9957
    It’s better to control our action, rather than our thoughts. The quality of relationship matters more. Really amazing speech! To create happiness from now on. Let’s begin!
  • Two things: first, happiness is inner, is not a destination, but how you walk along the way. Second , replacing bad habits with good ones takes time and discipline and focus on only one at a time. And don’t forget to celebrate all the tiny achievements.
  • @user-oi3yb7mm7h
    When we succeed, we must not forget our past. When we fail, we must remember there is still tomorrow. When the path leads to nowhere, we can always take another path. We can make a diversion.
  • @Erickaosoad
    She is amazing! She speaks so peacefully and helpful! I would love spend a lot of time talking to her! Great TedTalks!
  • @aqibzafar4275
    One of the way how get happiness is talk like this lady, speaking peacefully. It creates softness in listening too.
  • Thank you so much for your insight on happiness! This really does make a lot of sense and is definitley something for us to keep focusing on: Our relationships with one another. Humility. Thank you🙏
  • @Elinsinba
    I think there are different levels of happiness and the highest level is to make peace with your mind and the rest of the world.
  • Thank you TEDx Talks for organizing this and Katarina for sharing interesting studies on happiness and your recommendation of building quality relationships. Let us not find but create happiness together as a human race in spite of the challenges brought by the current pandemic. BE (VERY) BLESSED!
  • @irisreteach5915
    Thanks to her I know I'm happy though I'm single, unemployed for almost one year. Because I have family, friends always ready to back me up. Thank you so much.
  • @phhafff
    The best talk for my current struggling situations. Thanks Katarina Blom and TEDx Talks for bringing a great talk 💕💕