We Became Swingers Because My GF Wanted To Date Women | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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Published 2022-03-03
Bartender Kiley and her husband Brad, both 30, from Cleveland, Ohio, have been together for six years. Kiley was open at the start of their relationship that she was bisexual, but finding "unicorns" - single women willing to date couples - on dating apps proved difficult and so on the advice of a friend, they decided to try swingers clubs. The couple were reluctant at first but quickly fell in love with "the lifestyle" and began meeting up with other couples regularly. Indeed, Kiley was so won over that she began sharing her experiences on TikTok and is now one of the biggest lifestyle educators on “swingtok” with tens of thousands of followers. However Kiley’s social media success has come with a dark side and the pair have received a lot of judgment online, with trolls accusing them of having sexually-transmitted diseases or saying that they are setting a bad example for their children. But despite the backlash Kiley is determined to help normalise swinging and says it has helped radically change her life and her relationship for the better.
Videographer: David Jones
Producers: Tom Midlane & Yasmin Walker
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All Comments (21)
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Being swingers doesn't bother me, but making bisexuality sound like an open relationship is always part of it, does. Being bi (or pansexual) doesn't necessarily mean u want an open relationship. Also, ultimatums don't work w sex. How does she know her partner truly wants to do this or is only doing it cuz he doesn't want to lose her? She seems to talk A LOT about her happiness, but I never heard HIM say it. 🤷🏻♀️
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"I'm bisexual"- proceeds to talk about being a swinger- Bisexual doesn't equal swinger! I'm bisexual and would be perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship with either gender. Stop using bisexual as excuse for wanting an open relationship. I respect your decision for knowing what you want in a relationship but don't drag your sexuality into it as the reason. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. Ps: Also she says they aren't in an open relationship but swinging is literally a form of open relationships 💀
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"What the freaky hell" ? The husband looks uncomfortable ,smh. He needs to leave the relationship and seek someone who's into monogamy because this chandelier swinging, exchanging bodily fluids with strangers isn't "It" for this man. He's doing this to keep her, smh. Self love bro, self love.
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The guy seriously just said "you're more likely to get an std if you aren't a swinger. we know what the hell we are doing." um... unless you ask for test results, how can you know for sure you arent gonna catch something? changing sex partners over and over in anyway is a huge std risk.
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He looks so insanely uncomfortable. Obviously only doing this because he's too beta to lose his girl and start dating again.
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Uhhh just because you're bi doesn't automatically mean you're polyamorous. This is not appropriate bi representation.
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Poor Brad…Run Brad Run 🏃🏻♂️
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Let’s get together and talk about sTDs
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Kiley: “We fell in love with it instantly” Brad: nervous sweating
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This is pathetic and unhealthy.
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Is it just me or does he look like he is not comfortable with it? She is all in it but I think he didn't make up his mind about it jet 🤔
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If you want to continue sleeping around after being in a relationship, why don't you just stay single... To drag the partner to such misery is just groos...
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He doesn’t seem too happy about it 😕
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Hey! Wanna cheat on each other, together? You know. To be fair-sies. This isn't love.
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Hi Truly. Bisexuality is fine. Polyamory is fine. Implying that they are one and the same is not fine. Thanks.
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I've seen a lot of women on here do the whole "I'm unhappy, let me smash other people or this relationship is over"
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I'm sorry but the couple they meet up with at the end...the dude looks like the kind of guy that after sex will start an argument about which phone is best for militant atheism and then call him mom on it to pick him up some taco bell and the chick just gets done and is like, "You wanna smoke some meth?"
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Dude needs to look up what "love bombing" is and have a good think about what he actually wants vs what he thinks she wants him to want He looks miserable, jussayin
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Bisexuality doesn't mean non monogamous...
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Brad is just a simp who let his gf cheat on him . More power to you Brad and hopefully you don't end up going insane though this situation.🤣🤣🤣🤣
