EVERY (SINGLE) NEEDS TO KNOW THIS! CANDID CONVERSATION WITH REBECCA LYNN POPE

GRAB YO SNACKS! Will post the time stamps tomorrow, angels 💕 DONT FORGET TO HIT “LIKE” pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee ✨

I think people need to understand marriage isn't perfect, men aren't perfect, and women aren't perfect. We need to have realistic expectations. Communication, listen often and apologize if you did anything wrong. We are always learning. I agree with some things she said, but not all.

To add to the topic of "what's the difference between fear and intuition", fear is temporary while intuition is consistent. Our intuition will continue to remind us what is right or wrong, while fear is here today and gone tomorrow, and ever changing. Breeny, your content and conversations bring in so much depth that forces you to look within yourself and re-evaluate our own values. Over the years you have continued to aid in my growth as a woman and I thank you. You're def my BIG SIS that I never had lol.

Approaching my 30’s, I’ve learnt a lot based on my mistakes and I don’t regret anymore. Being single or in couple doesn’t matter to me no more, what matters is being AUTHENTICALLY MYSELF 🤗 and enjoy every step of my life. What’s meant to me, it’s gonna come to me naturally. I deserve the best, we’re all deserve it ❤❤❤

I know of women who didn’t want to get divorced but were advised by doctors to get divorced after being admitted into psyche wards or going through other stress related illnesses like strokes caused by stressful marriages.

It was around this time 2 years ago that I first stumbled across Rebecca Lynn Pope - that same roommates interview and I literally did a 180. I locked off my situationship and then met my now husband of nearly a year. The majority of what she said really connected and helped to take the pressure off the process of dating. Such a blessing. Thanks for this great interview Breeny x

'"A man has to stand on his own feet." It's what I am currently training myself to allow my partner to do. 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

Ultimately marriage is not the prize... it is not a goal like buying a house or earning a degree. Having respect, partnership and reciprocity in a relationship is the prize. Start by loving and valuing yourself and love will find you. Being a wife is not a prize in this current cultural system. Being healthy and healed with people who value you is the prize.

Omg this was me. I've been married twice and related to her journey😳. It's insane how many men will marry a woman because they don't want anyone else to have them , but then have no intention of doing what they need to do to keep the women happy. I no longer date potential. If they can't step up during the dating phase they get cut off lol. I'm happily single until a man can show me they know how to put in the work.

I have noticed that a lot of men get into relationships for themselves, not for woman. A lot of men are still in a relationship because the woman hasn't left yet. A man will know he no longer loves or like you, no longer cares for you, and will he will mistreat you and he still won't leave you. If you notice carefully, a woman will do much better when she's by herself, and a man will do better when he has a woman, it's because 99% of men get in relationship for themselves, but they will never tell you that.

Boundaries will keep you single for a while , and THAT is ok!

This is single-handedly the best podcast episode I've ever heard on relationships/marriage. Really well done!

Yeaaaaa! You interviewed @rebeccalynnpope! She's the BOMB. 🤩🤩🤩🤩And so are you Breeny!🤩🤩🤩

I'm only 26 minutes into this video and I have to say that Rebecca has already hit the nail on the head for me, TWICE! For one, being a young black Christian woman who was raised in the faith, I consider myself really a kind and loving woman. I definitely felt like I enabled a lot of the selfish behavior while the men do literally nothing. They bring nothing and I lowered my standards with hope that things will get better. And then being a black Christian woman in the USA, I agree so much with the church part. I feel like it is often so taught that women have to endure everything that their husband puts them through, be his rock regardless of whatever, etc. I felt that a lot. I feel like so many women are doing so many things to become a wife but just like Rebecca said, not many men are doing the same.

Can we take a moment to be honest. No not all women are idolizing marriage. No it may not be a “badge of honor” but truth be told to be “chosen” is something that most women that want to be married want to experience. Yes we love ourselves but it does have some type of effect on you to not be that women for anyone. It’s easy for women that have been married before to say marriage isn’t a goal, badge of honor, etc.

I will be 25 in December but I have definitely been interested in becoming a better woman first for myself and also for my future husband. This video revealed a lot for me, thank you Breeny for bringing her on.

Ditch your list! Love it! There's a reason why the list we carry for our potential partner may mean absolutely nothing. It's influenced by our environment, our past, our upbringing, trauma, social media.. All of it. So incredibly important to go out with someone who is not your usual type. Loved this conversation! Always an inspiration for my channel x

Love the wife Convo... Your a wife when he finds you!!❤️🥰

I watched this video from start to end. When I saw 2 hours I was like… this is wild. But I will never regret listening to this conversation. I am so grateful to you ladies for sharing such important wisdom with us and Breeny, for asking the questions that we all would have wanted to ask. Thank you 🙏🏾 Sincerely.

See our girl Breeny doing big things. We are so proud of you. 😘